Do lesbians or femme lesbians tend to have more guy friends or girl friends. I noticed this girl I like (i don't know if she likes me to) has a lot of guy friends. I don't have too many guy friends at all. But i notice that a lot of her acquaintances, she doesn't even call them friends, are male. Is it because she's really cute? So, do you think that having more guy acquaintances than female is a sign of her sexuality? explain.
2006-12-28 10:45:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not at all. alot of lesbian feel more comfortable around men because we can communicate better with them. it is the same reason straight men hang around other stright men - whether we look it or not we feel like we're one of the guys.
2006-12-30 13:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by chuzzlemegreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...friends and acquaintances are a sign of sexuality?...i don't beleive that is the case,...i'm femme les, and my friends and acquaintances are comprised of straight males, gay males, straight females, and yes, lesbians,...imagine that,...lol
...they are my friends because "we" are genuine and honest with each other, not because of our sexual preferences...
...me thinks that you have a alterior motive immbedded in your question?,...me thinks you really like this girl?, and you would like to get to know her alot better?,...well then, be genuine, be open, and be honest with her,...who knows, the two of you may become very close friends, and possibly more?...no matter what happens, at least you made the effort to meet her, right?
...my very best wishes are with you hon, *kiss*
2006-12-29 06:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by tiny dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think her choice of friends is a personal decision. For me most of my friends are female, and I'm a lesbian. As for knowing if she likes you, hang out with her, find out if she likes you as "one of the guys" or as something more. I've always found that my friend's friends end up becoming my own. Even if a romantic relationship doesn't happen, you can always say you gained new friends.
2006-12-28 19:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by trixpopscle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it has anything to do with anything other than maybe she just feels more comfortable around male friends.
I have a fairly even mix of male and female friends, acquaintences, family etc.
I don't feel threatened by or any special affinity towards males over females or vice versa.
2006-12-28 18:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would much rather have male friends but to narrow it a bit....I'd rather they be gay men. The straight men always tend to develope crushes and think they can change you. That gets annoying. The straight women always worry that you're going to hit on them! I'm very femme and I do not have one bit of attraction to femme girls! So I try to relay this to my straight, femme friends!
2006-12-28 19:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, because i do have friends who hang out with a lot of guys but they are just a bunch of hot@sses and flirt alot. so it depends on the girl considering that i have a lot of guy friends but i have no interest in them as more than friends nd ima lesbian. also another thing is that guys are a lot easier to trust than girls because girls tend to backstab or talk a lot of smack(gossip).
2006-12-28 19:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, all the lesbians I know hang out with other lesbians, hetero women and the odd gay man.
2006-12-28 18:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This varies from person to person. It has NOTHING to do with sexuality!
What I mean is this: Some people are just more r-e-l-a-x-e-d around the opposite sex. Maybe there is just "no pressure" to perform or be someone they are not. Or maybe they just feel more comfortable. It doesn't always have something to do with sex : )
2006-12-28 18:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lesbians love women only. If anyone want guy - they are not lesbians.
2006-12-28 20:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not lesbia gay or a girl but my guess is they are just like regular girls exept dont want to get pregnant
~glad I could help
2006-12-28 18:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋