2006-12-28 10:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by JustMe♥. 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ok this has been the hardest thing for me to do but in cases such as this you must let time take its toll.
because suppose you told them that everythings gonna be ok and not to worry that would help them
if you said everything happens for the best, that would make things way worse.
everyone gets that way at the loss of a loved one....but time heals even the deepest wounds dear and this person whoever it may be, their wounds too will be healed by time and time alone.
it is only important for you to stand by and be there for the person...let them cry for crying relieves you physically of the stress. just comfort them silently as they cry such a hand over the shoulder and other comforting gestures...body language can often to be used to give solace.
that is the most you can do although you would be compelled to want to do more...losing a loved one is a grief like none other.
and it is a situation in life that no one can escape.
2006-12-28 10:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being there with them is often the best comfort there is at first. It isn't necessary to say anything but a warm hug and "I'm so sorry" means a lot. Later the person may need someone to talk with. Being a good listener is important. You can ask if there are errands you can run; children you can babysit for if there are small ones. Be willing to help out (perhaps do the laundry, wash dishes, vacuum). You can often tell by being there what things need to be done.
2006-12-28 18:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the loved one was sick with a terminal illness and was in constant pain and agony. Reassure the griever that at least your loved one is not in any more pain. Comfort them by saying that the deceased is now in heaven back in the arms of God. Go to the burial ceremony. Offer some food to the griever. Keep in touch and call whenever to console and comfort.
2006-12-28 18:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by rosieC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person if they want company or not. I would say the best bet would be to stay with that person as long as possible. even if you don't talk, it's the presence that counts. hugs tears strokes are allowed of course. just do what you feel best or what you think would help you. I'm soo sorry for that person, lost someone too. look after yourselves
2006-12-28 18:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by snackysneety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them know you're there for them whenever they need you, besides that, it's their journey, you can only help a little.
2006-12-28 18:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋