I am 24 and a mother of 1 he is 3. His dad walked out on me when I told him I was pregnant. I carried on with the pregnancy. I live in a nice home in a nice part of London and I am in a good job. I was also due to start university in the new year.
I have been seeing a really nice guy for the past few months. I have known him for 7 years we were friends before we were lovers. I had the coil in and he was using condoms. One time the condom split and now I am pregnant. He wants me and the baby so much but I am scared that I will be left alone again with the baby. My parents have already warned me that the support will not be there the second time around. His family has pledged support and he has told me that if abort the child it over between us as I took an abortion pill a couple years ago when we were seeing each other.
Some advice please!
2006-12-28 09:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sometimes in life you have to take chances. If you want the child and want the relationship then go for it. Your parents are being harsh now but I doubt that they would disown you if you were in need;
2007-01-01 00:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you want another baby - if so then why not trust him to stick around if he says he's gonna and make a family together? If you don't trust him then there's not much future in it anyway is there?
Personally i think you need to decide whether you want to have this baby regardless of who sticks around and who doesn't - if you don't want the baby and you only have it because he's persuaded you then you're not going to be happy and there are no guarantees how things will turn out in the future anyway?
2006-12-31 12:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its basically your life & your body, think seriously about whether you want a second child, Then weigh up your true feelings for the guy you are with as you say he wants you & the new baby, whats he like with your first child. If he shows real love & affection for the one he will almost definately show love for a second. I wish you good luck & hope all goes well for you.
2007-01-01 03:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Because I Said So 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have known this man for 7 yrs so you know him pretty well .His parent`s have offered their support and when your mother see`s the baby she will be 100% behind you , i know its hard but how would you feel later on knowing you aborted the baby you might very well regret it.
2007-01-01 07:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Black Orchid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
support is there for you so you say so stop worrying
2007-01-01 08:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋