Attention Ladies !!! Is she for real ?

Question

Is this woman real or fake" ? That is the question. I met her online Dec. 1st. She told
me she was in love. Now wait a minute, maybe
she is paranoid or something like that. But she
told me in her letter that, she chose to love
me in silence, for in silence, there is no
rejection. No the word fear is a clue. If a woman truly wants to know a man, why would
she use that as a ploy, to achieve an agenda.
That agenda being a lady who uses men.
Now I don't know for sure, so I am asking
from your perspective. And she also said this,
I am in fear of how much I love you. In her
website profile, she said she is tired of games,
and wants someone who is honest and sincere.
Once again the fear, is evident. But she is willing
to expose her heart to me. Going by her words.
Is this proof that she is for real, when she
sends me these kinds of letters ? In other
words, even though we have not met yet, does
she have this women's intuition of me. Is she
real or fake ?

Once again, the key word here is "fear".
I chose to love you in silence, for in
silence I find no rejection. In other words
at a distance, until I am sure that you will
someday love me. She is hoping it
will come to past, based on her letters.
Now it seems that whenever a woman
exposes herself in that manner, then
perhaps she is sincere. What do you
think ?

I can't wait to see what the future holds
for us. That is one definitive statement
from her.....

Answer 1

fake

Answer 2

If you say that you met her dec. 1st .that means that you guys have been in contact for almost a month now. How do you feel about her? Does she make you feel loved? Important? you know this things you actually know in your heart before asking anybody else...
I met my husband online, we used to chat online all the time , we are from the same country and almost from the same part of town, but we had never met, when we started this is was just a really nice friendship and it evolved from there , we were 2500 miles apart , and in the course of a year we met and got to know each other personally 'cause he moved to where we now live . We've been married for 3 years now and have 2 babies together , so.... as you can see not all online relationships end up to be fake............

Answer 3

I did a lot of online dating before I met the right man.It took time and effort to be sure it was right. I had many men who professed undying love,etc. That was right before they hit me with an ailing brother who was dying and his only request was.....xxxx of $ would cover it. Or they had gotten mugged and now their rent was due.... She has an agenda and in some way it will be to separate you from your money. Be very careful!!!!!! In fact I would fabricate a story of someone else that you had met online,how they had asked for money, and how you had gotten the police involved and had to go to court, how messy the whole thing was.See how long she loves you in silence....It'll be love from a distance, a long long distance.So far away that she won't email you anymore,lol....

Answer 4

she's real... real weird, that is.
This woman obviously has serious social anxiety issues. She wants love, but is too afraid of rejection to pursue anyone or let anyone get too close to her.
Also, she does not love YOU - she loves the IDEA of you that she's built up in her head. She's never even met you, how can she possibly get a real sense of who you truly are?

Be very careful and think twice before involving yourself with her. She may have more needs than you (or anyone) can fulfill for her.

Answer 5

It sounds like this woman is a great writer and a terrible lover, and fake, fake, fake. Loving in silence is no love at all. (In fact, it makes me believe you are one of many, or she is married, or that there is something she is hiding) Unless you are completely desperate for any kind of love, let this one go- there are many more women out there and you deserve someone that will love you in silence, in loudness, in sight, in hindsight, forwards, backwards and back again. Find someone willing to shout their love to the highest mountains for you and get rid of this one who is unable to express it at all.

Answer 6

i think she is desperate to meet her mr right and is handling the whole situation wrong unfortunately.. but word of warning if you are going to meet etc then be careful cos a relationship that aint even there yet cos you havent met is bound to fail cos she wants too much too soon. wheres the long dating etc to get to know each other.. she needs to date with people and have fun and enjoy that and if love comes even better.. i think she is being way too full on already good luck

Answer 7

..i would be wary...i met my man online and it has worked out really well..but from the start we said no head games and no lies...sounds like she has broken the first...for sure..and no doubt the second too...be very careful...if you feel this way and have yet to meet imagine how she could rip you apart once she and you have 'got it together'...women can be cunning and thoughtless creatures...and VERY manipulative...you can be whoever you wish on the net and in letters...you know really or you would not have posted this question...good luck mate...xxx

Answer 8

Sorry, but there is far too much of a head fcuk going on here, best just leave it as friends for a while don't you think, see what occurs at a later date?

Answer 9

in my opinion she is alonely woman (which is why she is advertising herself on the internet in the first place) who has had bad experiences in the past and so feels safer getting to know someone on the net. as for loving you.....i doubt it is real love. she probably feels like she has a lot in common with you and feels like she likes everything about you so far and is wishing to know you and love you properly which is different from really knowing someone and loving them. i would be careful; of someone who makes such emotional and intense claims so early...she sounds insecure and fragile which is a recipe for disaster

Answer 10

I wouldn't go for it. She definitely sounds like someone who is just trying to manipulate you into to thinking that you really do love her. Whoa slow down and try to find out more about her, because she sounds scary to me.

Answer 11

I agree with patsypax, she sounds deperate, better be safe than sorry. If you're curious, than go for it but i dounbt it'll lead to a healthy, honest relationship.