her last partner had a 9 inch penis and im merely 6.5 or so. how can i give her the same feeling and not make her feel bored?
2006-12-28 09:03:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
and if you're wondering how i know how big he is, we have a mutual friend who told me.
2006-12-28 09:29:53 · update #1
Ah so! I, being a female, know whereof I speak. It isn't how long or even how thick you are. It all depends on how well you use what you have. And let me tell you, I had a lover when I was a younger woman, who was on the small side. BUT he knew how to change his position and how to let me change mine, to stimulate my clitoris. He had me seeing stars. He had the most important quality down pat. His desire to please me was exciting in itself. And you, dear, are bigger than he was.
Also, sometimes a very long penis can hurt the woman if the man is thrusting too vigorously. You, however, should be able to go at full length without worry. That's a good thing. :-)
Your girlfriend is very lucky to have a man so concerned with her enjoyment. Kudos to you!
2006-12-28 09:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by lothespiritalker 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Actually you have just about the perfect size penis! I was dating a guy for a couple of months who had a 9 incher and it was the worst sex of my life!! it was to big to be enjoyable and i was always glad when it was over. the other guys i have dated have always been between 5 and 7 inches and the sex was awesome. don't feel that because he was bigger that means it was better, because it's defintely not. you have a great penis size and you should be very proud of that!
2006-12-28 09:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Caterina C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. The vagina is flexible, she may not notice the difference in the two. If anything she ought to be appreciative she is not getting impaled. 9.5 is very rare, so your mutual friend may be full of it. 6.5 is good enough for any babe.
2006-12-28 09:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you can't use shear, brute force cause your boy's a bit short, there are other ways to get her to ***.
Go get a good sex self-help book and learn some fore-play, oral techniques, sexual positions etc.
She'll be impressed that you can make her *** in different ways!
PS:
Hey Yahoo Answers, Why the Hell is the word C...U...M being blocked???
2006-12-28 09:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ed A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
6.5 inches is enough for girl to make feel good, and if you can make her have an orgasm all the times.
2006-12-29 05:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give her plenty of oral sex then when she is a bout to orgasm I would stick it in her while rubbing her clitoris so she can experience intercourse and a orgasm at the same time. You can feel her throbbing on you while your inside.
2006-12-28 09:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
6.5 to 9 isnt that much, the female vagina only has nerves in the first 2/3 anyway, it shouldnt be hard to please her and i wouldnt even worry about it, most of us dont have a 9 incher anyway, contrary to what you have been told
2006-12-28 09:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
how do you know her last partner was 9"? if she told you that, she's kinda skanky. there's no reason to tell your current partner that sort of information unless you're purposely trying to intimidate him. if you asked her, that's another story, but if she's overtly trying to compare you to previous lovers, then i'd say that nothing you do is going to help- she's always going to be thinking of you as second best.
2006-12-28 09:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by belfus 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Foreplay, hip action, just plain old creativity and treating her well. Follow any or all of these and she won't think about him when you are being intimate.
2006-12-28 09:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by sarcasm_gurl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you got to find out what she likes. All girls are different. Ask her.
2006-12-28 10:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋