i just found out today that im pregnate omg and who i think is the father is denying it what do i do
2006-12-28 09:00:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ok calm down for a minute don't get to excited first of all there are laws stating what this guy has to do. It is scary being a first time mom believe me I had my first when I was 18 and my second 3 months ago. They both have the same dads though. If I were you I would start getting all the legal matters out of the way before the baby gets here because you will not have time after the baby gets here. If you would like to talk more you can message me on yahoo messanger marketing_masters@yahoo.ca
2006-12-28 09:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your focus and energy on you and your child's future together for now. Plan with a loving parent and or adult you trust. If you're almost positive that the guy you speak of is the father, then I would write a sincere letter to his parents...be sympathetic to all instead of blaming anyone for poor decisions and bad reactions -- we're all human and we make terrible mistakes throughout our entire lives...so make yourself approachable to all involved. It's not going to be easy -- but it's an awesome example of maturity that will hopefully spread to everyone involved and make these hard times, well, as enjoyable as possible. I wish you all the best.
2006-12-28 09:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by japarino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said who you think is the father.....so you really don't know??? Don't accuse him of being the father if you're not sure yourself.
You can determine paternity while pregnant. Do you plan on keeping the baby? Get an amniocentsis done later in your pregnancy and have DNA determined through that. Look it up on the internet for more info. But he has to agree to go with you to do this, cuz they need to sample his DNA.
2006-12-28 09:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a paternity test done right after the child is born! The results will not lie! Also tell the one you think is the father that you will expect him to help with the support of the child if the test shows that it is indeed his. If he refuses, let him know you will see him in court. Chances are he will admit to he being "daddy" awfully fast.
2006-12-28 09:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only thing you can do is get a DNA test done after the baby is born. This test is infallible - that means that whatever it says is for sure. If the baby is his, you file for child support. If the DNA test proves the child is NOT his, then you will have to give up the name of the other guy LOL.
2006-12-28 09:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats! now don't worry about the so called father, just focus on your angel baby. take care of your body and don't stress out.
Everything will work out for you if you make it happen. Listen to the other people and get a paternity test after the child is born.
God bless
2006-12-28 09:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you will have to do a paternity test if you don't know the actual father. Go get an appointment with your doctor so they can keep you and your baby healthy and safe. Take care of yourself! Goodluck!
2006-12-28 09:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by m930 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries. When you go to the Dr for your first visit they'll give you an estimated time of conception...go to www.pregnancy.com put in first day of your last period then you can see for yourself. Definately go to the doc for your first check-up, see how you feel then make the call to your future baby's dad..... Dont do anything to put your baby at risk like stress out. It will all work out, you'll see...Also if your not ready to have a baby there are other alternatives.......
KH
2006-12-28 09:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, don't stree out! I'm sure it's hard but it's not good for the baby.
If he doesn't believe you about the only thing you can do is get a DNA test when the baby is born.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 09:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by kista_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't know who the father is you will have to wait until the baby is born and have a paternity test done.
2006-12-28 09:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by David B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋