im so confused. i dont get why he would break up with me for that. i want him back so bad but idk what to do. should i give him what he wants to get him back or just talk to him about it? idk what to do.
2006-12-28 08:59:35 · 56 answers · asked by Maddie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be glad you are rid of him. If he broke up with you because of sex then he didn't really love you to begin with, he just wanted to get in your pants. Forget about him and move on.
2006-12-28 09:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
first of all Have you ever done it with him or not, secondly if you haven't then stay strong and tell him to go to hell, if you have then why did you stop . a guy can't miss what he hasn't had but if you just cut him off you are a crappy person and he shouldn't come back. the only reason to stop hav ing sex in my opinion is if he is cheating and then break up with him otherwise if you don't give him what he wants someone else will. if you are a virgin that is an exception and he should respect that until you feel like the time is right.
2006-12-28 09:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by cbearhalla 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget that dude. If he loved or even liked you that wouldn't be an excuse to break up. You should totally let me do what he wants. There's to much going around to be laying up in the bed with everyone you meet anyway. Saving your goodies for someone who is considerate and respects your body for the temple that it is. Get your mind off of him, go work out, read a book, whatever it is you enjoy doing go do it, just don't think about that guy for nothing!! Good luck
2006-12-28 09:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by TKM2001 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, No, NO! What is he going to give you that you can get from someone else who would be willing to wait for you to give it freely body, mind and soul? Ask yourself, did you really have a relationship with him in the beginning? Just you writing this tells me he only wanted one thing and probably was going to leave after you did the deed. You already knew the answer, you should have dropped kicked him a long time ago, basically when he said hello.
2006-12-28 09:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by notnew2U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question depends on alot of things how long were you two together? and in the begining did you make it known that you wanted to wait in the first place? Having a man who refuses to wait usually means that they truly don't care about YOUR feelings and just digging for the goods. It's understandable that you would want him back, however you need to think about yourself and if "giving it up" is the rightthing for you. Don't ever let any man make you think lower of yourself and feel that you need to have sex in order to keep them. Surprisingly there are some good men out there you just have to stick to your decisions and eventually you will find someone who respects them. Good Luck!
2006-12-28 09:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by forevernoemi's 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must be young. You will realize, that if a dude dumps you because you won't go all the way, you don't need him. Besides, if he left you because you wouldn't then most likely he doesn't like you like that anyway and will still be gone after he get it. You feel bad now, but if you give in and he still dumps you, you will feel worse. Trust me, i know. Been there, made my mistakes, and know better. You can save yourself a lot of heartache if you just say Fxxx- him and move on.
2006-12-28 09:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by MS. CHICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready for sex and you know it, because if you were ready for sex you would have slept with him. You should be glad that you are no longer involved with him, all he wanted from you was sex he didn't get it so now it's time for him to move on.Let him!! Never-ever-never let a guy pressure you to do anything that you do not want to do.In time you will feel better about yourself,and you will not miss him as much. Good Luck.
2006-12-28 09:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by mil414 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a woman with the most powerful thing to all men! Your (well I can't say it on yahoo!) but you know what I mean. DO NOT sleep with him. There is no reason at all you should HAVE to sleep with him. But think about it this way...it worked out for both of you...if you stayed with him he most likely would have cheated on you and you found out that he truely just wants sex. So at least be .1 percent glad that he did what most men won't...he straight out told you!
2006-12-28 09:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you because you wouldn't sleep with him, he's not a guy you want to be with. He sounds like a real dirtbag. No man who truly respected you would dump you because you wouldn't sleep with him. You should only sleep with a guy when you feel you are ready, don't let any guy pressure you into something you're not ready for. Forget about this guy, there are plenty of decent guys out there who would not pressure you into anything.
2006-12-28 09:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want him back that's your own stupidity.Because he clearly only wanted you for one thing if he broke up with you because you didn't give it to him.That right there should tell you how much of a loser he is and what he really thinks of you as.Use your brain and be glad he's your ex.
2006-12-28 09:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would not look back. If that is the reason he broke up with you then it is showing what he is really like. I understand you are hurt, but you do not deserve to be treated like a piece of meat.
2006-12-28 09:14:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋