2006-12-28 08:55:22 · 15 answers · asked by Christina c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does it usually end with both partys hatting each other?
2006-12-28 08:58:31 · update #1
They seem to all end up with the hate winning over love. The people part with hurt feelings and anger.
2006-12-28 09:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
badly. i can't front, i am in a love hate relationship right now and have been for the last five years. I just weigh the good/bad ratio and the good is outweighing the bad heavily, so i know that part of the issue is me. I am now working on me. If you end it though make sure you cut off all contact or it will never be finally over. You will have the same stress later as you do today. See if there is anything you need to work on for you, if you focus of you more, you will relaize that you feel less hate and more love.
2006-12-28 17:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by MS. CHICK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interestingly enough, the opposite of love is NOT hate. The two emotions usually are pretty close to each other... and many love/hate relationships end in love... some end in hate... but both emotions are passionate emotions and you can hate someone because you love them and are afraid to let go of the control you have over your emotions and give in to your true feelings. The opposite of love is actually indifference... when you absolutely don't care about the person one way or the other... they could live or die, come or go... they could become the "perfect" person and you would not care one whit about it. If you are in a love-hate relationship, ask yourself why you hate the person so much.. what does he/she do that makes you so angry, frustrated, upset? I bet it turns out to be personality quirks that you hate in yourself... and wish the other person was better at that particular thing or issue than you yourself are. Let me explain... I cannot stand the fact that my boyfriend is such an angry driver. He curses, slams on his brakes, and all sorts of other road rage... and I asked myself why it bothered me so much. Hmmm... its because I, myself, have a bad case of road rage every so often and I can't stand that about ME... so I project my feelings onto my boyfriend. The next time you are with him/her, ask yourself what exactly it is that you hate about that person. Then examine your OWN life and see if it isn't a personality quirk that you yourself indulge in. On the other hand... maybe you should examine why you LOVE the other person... if they have so many traits that you cannot stand, are you just hoping they will eventually change?? They wont. Move on..... but never confuse hate for indifference... and don't confuse love for lust... lol... that is a whole other subject!!!
2006-12-28 17:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it usually ends with both parties hating each other
2006-12-28 17:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love/ hate relationships usually end with a love for hating the other person....
2006-12-28 16:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going to tell you my experience. My ex boyfriend Tokumbo was Dark and handsome. Fine Fine and I felt honor to be with him. We only dating a few months and we had good relationship so I thought. One day I was looking for my panties that left over in his bedroom and found another woman panties. I confronted him about and he say they were mines and it was another time when came over to see him his roommate would not let me in. I confronted him about it and he denied it. He left because got station to Japan and we kept in touch. We would see each on his down time. He was seeing someone else on his down time to. I spent three years loving this man and equal time hating him. I love him because he was ambition and he made be smile. I love the sex we had but hate him for not staying faithful to me. I love him one minute and hated him the next. I finally cut all ties with him it was painful.
2006-12-28 17:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess so. How can it end up in love? If it was love, the relationship wouldn't have ended.
2006-12-28 18:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Dislike is a stronger emotion than like.
2006-12-28 17:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they usually just "end" period. Its not a healthy relationship
2006-12-28 17:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lori J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but if love is gone you wont want to be with this person with just hate anyway,
2006-12-28 17:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by dorothy u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋