I lost my job forced to take my wife and son to lie with my mother in this ghetto *** neighborhood. I had an apartment my own privacy anything that I wanted to do now completey stripped away now that I lost my job. My wife hates my mother and I do to Im sorry to say. She's hypocrytical and sick it's just driving me to the point where I want to physically hurt her. She doesn't care when I have job interviews that I ask if she could please take me and she says that a $7 an hour security job is better than a good paying office job in downtown Miami. She puts me down everytime I have something going good for me. I just think she does it to break me and my wife up. She disrespects my wife and she barges in at all hours of the night talking all this crazy sh*t while my son is sleeping and when I tell her loom the baby is sleeping she doesnt care. She even went as far as saying that she was going to call child services and have my son taken away from us. Please give me some advice.
2006-12-28 08:38:48 · 10 answers · asked by MIKE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You'll have to do what you can to find a job and your wife could get one too. And your mom is right a $7 paying job is better than no job. $7 will put money in your pocket at least until you find the job you want. You're going to have to deal with your mom until you can offord to live alone with your family. Keep your head up and leave your options open. Don't be wuick to close the door on any opportunity that comes your way. Good Luck!
2006-12-28 08:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, my friend, and I feel for you... I don't have anything brilliant to offer other than swallow your pride and try to show some gratitude that she's putting you up in her home. I know it's hard. REAL hard. Then, go find another job... take a taxi if you have to, or public transit, to the interviews. Right now, finding another job IS your full time job. You should be working on it 40 hours a week.
2006-12-28 08:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 03:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by huenke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best Advice is to HURRY UP and get a job and move far away from the mother. Even if you have to work at Mickey Dee's until that good one comes around. Ill pray for you Ive been there and dont want to be there again
2006-12-28 08:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you have done if your Mom wasn't around to shelter you ? If you need to take that security job and extra job at McDonald's than that's what a man has to do to support his family!
2006-12-28 08:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by dadacoolone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get help from welfare service just to get you and family out of her home so you can get that better job.And Your mom is just trying to help you so your not homeless but she also might want her own privacy back and that could be what she is reacting from when shes being controlling like that.
2006-12-29 02:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by cindybells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get section 8. If you have no job they give you a place to live and there are other forms of assistance. check it out. good luck
2006-12-28 12:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan ahead and never put yourself in this position. this isn't because you lost a job. Your responsible for letting yourself be put in this postiion
2006-12-28 08:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by crackleboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jobs come and go. Find another one and move out of there ASAP.
2006-12-28 08:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who's forcing you?
2006-12-28 08:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by All hat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋