My mom does not trust me anymore at all.... I can understand y... I lie and disobey her.... I want her trust how do I gain it back....I know what i need to do to change!!!
2006-12-28 08:37:02 · 18 answers · asked by ballerinagirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she cant even look at me without that disgusted look on her face
2006-12-28 08:37:28 · update #1
EARNING IM SORRY ABOUT THAT
2006-12-28 08:37:47 · update #2
Same happened with me and my Mom. You have to give it time, and not lie and stuff in the meantime. Or else she won't trust you. You don't want to gain back her trust and then disobey or lie to her again, or else she may never trust you again.
2006-12-28 08:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have made a good start by understanding why she does not trust you. It will take much time and efforts. Ultimately, she will have to forgive you eventually. Not knowing her, I cannot say when or if that will be. In the meantime, just do what you know is right and refrain from betraying any trust she does have. Let time take care of the rest.
2006-12-28 16:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can earn her trust back by telling her the steps you plan to take to do whatever it is you need to do, and then following them. Time is required to earn trust back for anything...from anyone. You have to show repeatedly that you do what you say you will, and are worthy of this trust...but still there are no guarantees. If you have betrayed her trust too much, it may be beyond winning back.
2006-12-28 16:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you said it - you need to change! and make sure you do nothing that will go against her wishes again. And also the only thing that will sort out this problem is time. It will take time for you to prove to her that you have changed and will stay that way, and that you deserveher trust. This happened with me, i had to learn the hard way, but when i did change it made my relationship with my mum great. and she trusts me 100% now.
2006-12-28 17:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by kimberley123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Show her that you can be responsible by helping around the house. Respecting her wishes. Make a new years resolution by not lying to your mum and disobeying her.
2006-12-28 17:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest... don't lie... those sound basic but thats what you need to do.... tell her where you are going, who you are going to be with, what you will be doing.. when you're out, check in with her.
Speaking from experience, it will get better with time. When you do earn her trust back, don't be foolish enough to hurt her and lose it again.
2006-12-28 16:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Neville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove that you have learned your lesson and changed your ways...in time she will recognize the difference and begin to trust again. When you learn from a mistake it becomes a lesson...so once you have proven yourself, little by little she should be willing to give you another chance. I wish you the best
2006-12-28 16:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what have you done to lose her trust in you?? just wonderin
start by apologizing and telling her you're sorry and that you want to change whatever made her lose trust you should try and fix (not that you can redo the past or anythin like that) but just try you hardest to be trustworthy!!!
2006-12-28 16:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by cathy_melcher72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to show her that you have really changed by keeping up the good behaviour. Eventually she will realise that you are being genuine and trust you again. Just don't screw it up, ok?
2006-12-28 16:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not lying and disobeying her.
2006-12-28 16:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋