i know she enjoys partying but she is too afraid to go ....
it usually takes me like 2 days just to convince her to go, and than she would come up with stupid excuse on the last minute....
i really want her to go with me, cause she is my best friend and all she does sit at home every evening
2006-12-28 08:20:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Economics
I am like your friend, I am not a party person, I just don't enjoy the party atmosphere. That does not make her antisocial. Have her suggest something to do. It may be something as simple as walking around a flea market or a movie, if that is what she likes to do , then that's her thing. Remember you are her best friend, do not make her do something she does not want to, respect how she lives her life socially and if she wants to spend time with you sitting at home watching a movie, then set aside some time for her and be there for her in other ways than socially.
2006-12-28 08:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just aren't party people or feel very awkward at them. I certainly have always fell into that catagory.
By all means, continue to invite your friend, and tell her she'll have a great time, but don't force the issue. She's made it clear that it's not her thing.
2006-12-28 09:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give me her phone number, Uncle Kevin will teach her to party.
2006-12-28 09:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by KevinStud99 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't change her! But find out her fear and confront it! And then she'll want to do what you do which is: PARTY!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-28 08:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy Diva 101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋