I won't say I feel bad for myself for not having someone like they do. But it definitely hurts sometimes because the loneliness can just hold up so little.
I'm 25.
2006-12-28 08:18:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your still so very young. Have fun with your life being single. It will come your way. Getting married is a good thing but also brings a lot more stress in your life as paying bills having children and day to day life. I say be happy for your friends and have fun with your life and it will come around for you but don't look for it because your friends are getting married.
2006-12-28 18:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel happy about what I have achieved in my own life thus far. Marriage is nice, but its not the be-all and end-all of man's existence. My friend(s) are not my mirror, I don't have to do every single little thing they do at the same time they do it. Life would be kinda boring that way. Use your 'lonely time' to do something good for yourself - join a gym and work out or something (the endorphins will make you feel better). And when that great guy does come along, you'll be in tip top shape ;) lol
2006-12-28 08:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to feel happy for your friends, and at the same time you feel sad for yourself like it's never going to happen for me. I am in a situation where I may get what I want, but will have a large price to pay. Still trying to debate if the ends justify the means. When it happens for you, you'll be glad it came along when it did.
2006-12-28 08:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 28 and married and have a girlfriend who is 32 and still single. She HATES it and she usually condemns me and anyone else who is married and happy. As a result, all I do now is email her - I won't go out with her because she is so negative. So don't become like that!
2006-12-28 08:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to myself sooner or later they're going to find out Mr. Wonderful isn't so wonderful after all. And how glad I am I'm not the one who said the "I do's." One friend is going through another divorce and I told her damn girl, you better stay away from them cops. She was like....I know...I know.
2006-12-28 08:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me....now all my friends that were married are getting divorced (or already are) and I'm marrying the love of my life in a few months.
That's how life works.....
2006-12-28 08:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by AmyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it can feel odd...you see them enjoying times with their partners and it's only natural to wish that for yourself as well...however I just accept that I haven't met anyone recently with whom there was a mutual desire to be together and I don't let that cause my life to be any less fun...
2006-12-28 08:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be happy for them and no sadness on my part..i was quite ung in those days and dating a lot..
but now - when i am not that ung..and still single... i feel happy for them but sad for myself...
u r right..it is a normal feeling..
2006-12-28 08:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out have fun
you'll meet someone out of the blue.
try online dating but be careful
2006-12-28 08:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks
2006-12-28 16:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Hey Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋