My ex is a complete definition of a "sociopath". Unfortunately we have a 4-year old daughter together. I really want him out of our lives. Does anyone know the best way to handle sociopaths & does everyone believe they exist?
2006-12-28 08:10:59 · 12 answers · asked by Q.T.PIE. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was married to one. get out while you can because unless they use that for bettering themselves then you are on the road to hell believe me I know .They exist and they are selfish and arrogant and think that they should come first and that is the way that they set their priorities. GET OUT before something bad happens.
2006-12-28 08:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by kimber1731 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife accuses me of sociopathic tendancies. I think the best way to handle one is to get as far away as possible. move to a different city, or better yet state or country. As long as you are visible you will be the target. if you dissapear, someone else will come along to encur the vendictive rath of a sociopath, freeing you to raise your daughter without the influence of a heartless spouse.
2006-12-28 08:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Big V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I have empathy for you, I married one myself. The only way I got out of it was letting the situation get so bad my kids got taken away, he went to jail, and my parents came and rescued me and the kids, flying us 3 states apart. I talked on the phone to him for 6 months, I was adicted and still did not want to let go, but eventually he found another girl and the calls started getting farther and farther apart. Soon I got pregnant and the calls stoped all together, I wasn't *his* anymore since I had another mans baby in me. Now I do not suggest having another baby, and I did not do it to get away from him, but that is my story. There really is no other solution than leaving the area, far, far away, and not giving any one he knows your number or adress. I know that is mean to take away his baby, but only we who deal with those types of men understand why, so if there is no court order of visition or staying in town, I would suggest that.
2006-12-28 08:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, pretty much I made my dates fill out a questionnaire before I went out with them---"are you a sociopath?" was question # 75, right under "name 3 crimes you have committed or would like to committ" and before "what did your mother make you for dinner last night?"
2006-12-28 08:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have. I can relate. Fortunately, there's no child involved. My advice to you is that whenever he wants to visit his daughter, have him meet you over a friends or relatives house. When he calls keep the conversation short and just about your daughter.
I hope that helps.
2006-12-28 08:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by gloried 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I was married to one for 12 years.
2006-12-28 08:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you couldn't have a relationship with a sociopath for many years. while they do exist.... he is not. go back and re-read the definition for the word you are using. you are contradicting yourself.
By the way... where did you get your liscence to be a psychiatrist? otherwise you don't know anything about what you are talking about.
2006-12-28 08:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by SST 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sure I know a sociopath - in fact, I know lots of them. They are commonly referred to as "females".
2006-12-28 08:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Wise one 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
yes. and good luck. due to the kid, your stuck with this moron
2006-12-28 08:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by n&ph fetish (male) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i don't know how
2006-12-28 08:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋