I looked in my husbands phone and noticed he had been calling and texting a female friend he had never told me about (for months). By the looks of he text messages he made her think he only had a girlfriend, not a wife who is about to have his baby. When I confronted him about her, asking who she was, he blew up at me and started calling me every awful name in the book. He said I was accusing him of cheating, which I was not. He called me stupid, a whore, among a bunch of really horrible names. All I wanted to know was who she was and he said, his friends are HIS not mine. He said he had known her for many years, but yet I knew nothing of her. Why do you think he got so mad at me if he was just friends with her? Also, he wanted to meet with her when we went back to visit his family. We recently moved really far away from our old home, where this girl is near.
Months ago I also asked him why he was calling and emailing his old girlfriend and he blew up at me then too.
2006-12-28 08:07:51 · 14 answers · asked by blondie79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I had my stuff packed and was going to leave, but its a 26 hr drive home and I am 9 months pregnant and the weather got bad, so I am here and we are ok right now, but I am really hurt by the words he called me. So, maybe in the future I will end up leaving. I am a very good wife and I do everything for him, so it really upsets me he would treat me this way.
2006-12-28 08:23:18 · update #1
He blew up at you because he KNOWS he is GUILTY!! So he is taking his guilt out on you. You don't deserve that. Pack his stuff and put it on the front porch.......make him think about it for a bit!!
2006-12-28 08:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by cakelady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He got so mad because he got caught...that is the way a lot of people act when they are confronted of doing something. Also, he should not be calling you all those names and treating you like that....that is not normal. You should leave him and get out of that situation...you don't deserve to live like that....and you shouldn't want your new little baby around that either.
2006-12-28 16:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by ~*SuMmEr*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense honey but your husband is abusive. The only reason he got so mad is because he got caught and it's hurting his ego. So instead of asking him you should try telling him that not only is he a cheater but that now that he's busted once you file for a divorce he will be paying alimony and child support for committing adultery. That will straighten him out
2006-12-28 16:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion to you, take care of yourself first. Have some money for yourself and your kids. After you give birth, have the courage to leave the useless D I C K !!! Watch the film from J.lo with the sound track enough, that would give you some encouragement.
2006-12-28 16:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The handwriting is on the wall, girl. That sucka is not interested in spending his life with you exclusively. He "blew up" because you caught him. Listen to your head, not your heart: you need to dump him. Think of your child; it does not need to be raised in such an atmosphere. Show the a$$hole the door and tell him not to let it hit him in the butt on his way out - permanently out!
2006-12-28 16:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you had no right looking at all of his phone numbers. this automatically says you really dont trust him. secondly there is nothing wrong with him having a female friend as long as he has told you she is his is friend and you are aquainted with this person. Ask him why if all three of you could met for dinner sometime and see what his answer is then. If he hesitates and gets mad again I would say he could be up to no good.
2006-12-28 16:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it matters whether he is cheating or not. The fact that he feels he can call you those names and treat you that poorly should be reason enough to leave him.
2006-12-28 16:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by mre 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg... you should leave him as soon as you can....
he is abusive and a jerk!!
you should tell your parents...maybe they could pick you up and leave that asshole for good!
i cant believe you would put up with a guy like that!? i know your situation is hard...but i just wish you had another choice...
i wish you the best of luck ...
2006-12-28 19:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tolerate a man talking to me like that. I'd have more over on him than he had on me. He's skating on thin ice and I got the blow torch.
2006-12-28 16:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He got mad because you do not like the fact that he has a girlfriend. Simple as that.
2006-12-28 16:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋