what have i done?

Question

I told all my friends that i lost my virginity while i was on holiday 2 years ago and some belived me and others didnt the thing is that i havent had sex and that i am scared that i will have sex with someone and i have to tell them it's my first time what should i do and the other thing i said was that i thought i was pregnant becoz me and the person i had done it wth didnt use a condom and i think every1 thinks i am a ****

Answer 1

First of all you need to come clean. Virginity used to be an honored thing to have and these days kids act like it's horrible.

Would you be happier if you could tell your friends you have HIV because you had sex or that you are a disease free virgin saving yourself for the man of your dreams?

Also hon, don't think that having sex with someone will make them yours forever. You may give away something and they'll take it and run....your virginity is what I'm talking about.

Answer 2

Hi i think you need to have a talk with yourself and try and be more mature about sex, you shouldnt lie about a think like this it doesnt make you look or sound clever as you now know.
If you are planning to sleep around then you better start telling the truth or you might get a reputation and lads will think you are up for it when you arnt and you could get into all sorts of trouble.
If you are going to change your ways then your boyfriend you do eventually sleep with wont mind weather your a virgin or not as you shouldnt even have to say. But i would apologise to everyone and say why you said it and be honest. Then have some respect for yourself and dont make up more stupid storys.
Just forget about it, you know the truth thats all that matters.

Answer 3

Be up front and open, tell your freinds the truth and don't do it like a whispered confession. The more people that are there the better, hey not a million right? If they can't accept it or are the kind that might tease then they are not worth having as friends, you might be surprised how many others might "confess" to being liberal with the truth in their lives. Apart from that try to stay honest cos if you keep up the bull***t in life that is what will catch you out. Go for it be grown up.

Answer 4

Almost everyone tells stories about their virginity, partly because they want to brag (it's usually just made up, as you did) or because they see being a virgin as a kind of stigma.

Although it was wrong of you to claim that you might have been pregnant for whatever reason, you shouldn't really care what other people think of you.

Confess to your friends that you weren't telling the truth at that time, and give a reason, perhaps you were just looking for attention, or you felt left out because all your other friends said they were doing it,. Whatever reason you give, it must be the right one.

Answer 5

Well it depends. If these people are your real friends then you should come clean and tell them you were making it up. They will understand. If however they are just people that you hang out eith then don't tell them anything just try not to mention it anymore they will find something else to gossip about soon enough. As for telling a boy you are a virgin, you should wait for the right person to havce sex with anyway and the right person will not mind if you are or not.

Answer 6

well first of all you need to start to tell the truth as you will get found out if they lose their before you. now you have just got to live this one out or tell everyone that you lied about it...

also dont go slagging about as you can see it doesnt actually impress anyone and the guys wont want to get to know you take you on date ect they will just want what they can get sexualy.

you dont have to tell a guy its your first time. seriously tho save your first time for some special. i have so many friends who wish they had gotten to know the guy 1st like i did.

i also think that somewhere you must of thought that this lie would make you more popular or you wouldnt of made this up. i hope you think about what might happen when you say things about yourself.

Answer 7

Be honest. Tell them the truth about your current situation - and apologize for not being truthful before. Explain to them the reason that you lied (perhaps to seem cool), and let them know you could really use their friendship now.

Even if you were lying, your real friends won't think you are a ****. Being honest now will help them see that you're a good person.

Answer 8

ok a true friend will stay with you tell the end am I right? so what a better chance to tell them the truth? I know that you don't want to lose them, you wouldn't want to be known as a ****, so when your true friend comes to you and wants to help you like a true friend wants to, then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Don't feel like you have to be cautious around your friends or you'll lose them, you should feel like you can tell your friends anything! If you need another friend hit me up w/ an e-mail or IM [e-mail]

Answer 9

Why did you lie in the first place? It aint cool. Tell them the truth and just get it over and done with. Besides 2 yrs ago-what was your story for the pregnancy? come clean and don't get caught up in trying to make your lie a reality just so that you don't have to tell the truth...

Answer 10

Well you closest friends are the only ones that really matter, tell them that you lied and tell them why. If they are truely your friend then they shall understand. As for the others are you really bothered if some random person thinks your a ****? because to be honest its what you think that counts.