2006-12-28 07:40:43 · 27 answers · asked by Trikki 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hi,
I definately do not agree with abortions. If you are mature enough to have sex, you are mature enough to have a baby.
Take responsibility for this child and give it the best you can. Love it and provide for it.
There are people out there that try for years to have a baby, me being one of them and never get the chance.
You will both be fine.
Good luck!
x
2006-12-28 22:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by sonny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't abort the baby, it's wrong! I am 28 years old and I have 3 children. Two of the pregnancies were planned, one was not. I can't even imagine what my life would be like with 2 children. The child from the unplanned pregnancy has brought so much joy to our home. I can't imagine life without her. I don't understand how a person can justify an abortion. I don't think the baby should be aborted. My advice would be to continue with the pregnancy and be in the delivery room when the baby is born. If you don't fall in love with the life you created, then place the baby up for adoption, or if you can't support the baby. Good luck, and please don't abort the baby.
2006-12-28 16:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. no. no. stop. JUST STOP RIGHT THERE. all the pro lifers out there aint going to be there to raise this child or pay for it's education or hold her hand when he's passed out watching the birth. Grow up! getting this poor kid to look at that stuff on websites, most of which is faked anyway is just putting pressure on a kid feeling the heat anyway. The girl is just as responsible as the boy, and they should talk it through with a qualified person such as a nurse or doctor. This is not the subject for a debate on a board such as here, its a very intimate thing and nobody here knows the circumstance of either family involved. It can be traumatic enough without people foaming at the mouth over whether this couple choose one way or another. Its all very very very sad. And indicative of how little support this boy feels he has in his life that he should want to ask something like this here.
2006-12-28 18:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by dionysos 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
abortion is a very personal thing. i think u shld consider the advantages and disadvantages first, and discuss them with ur girlfriend first. in fact u shld think of things like if she's too young to have a child and if there would be complications. also consider what the world would be like if Jesus or Hitler had been aborted.
if the cons are greater than the pros then go for it. i'm not against abortion like most people. i just think there are some situations in which it could save lives.
2006-12-28 16:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by divagal08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i just let you in on something abortions are not easy when i was 16 and pregant my mom made me have one i was so upset i had to go through the whole thing alone she wouldnt even let me tell the guy i was with anything and to this day i still regret it alot and it will have serious affects on ur realtionship so just think of how u will feel later on in life i now have 2 beautiful children that i love dearly and i regret what i did
2006-12-28 16:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You chose to have sex now deal with it... you are talking about a life here, not removing a friggen wart or something. If neither of you want to raise this baby then put it up for adoption, this child deserves better parents any ways.
To the one who presumes all of us women responding are 35 or older... I'm 24 and you are not one to decide when life begins and when it doesn't.
To the other, we are simply standing up for the life of an innocent unborn child. Most of us suggested adoption so that flings the excuses of costs and raising the child out.
2006-12-28 15:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by 2007 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats not something you should be asking us?!?!?!
This is a serious question that only you two should decide.....
Its a decision which will definitely affect her a ll her life......My best mate had an abortion and the anniversary of it affects her every year.........
Its a baby so get talking write a list of fors and againsts but most of all make sure you where a condom and she is on the pill in future double protection is better than this heart ache
2006-12-28 15:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do you know what
reading all these answers i can tell you that the profile of women that answered your question is -a professional 35+ with small children or just babies.
WOMEN- IF A SPERM MEATS AN EGG AND SETTLES IN A UTERUS IT DOESN'T MAKE IT A BABY DOES IT/
i know this is obviously a silly question to be asked here anyway but what does this mans mistake have to do with all of these older ladies that waited all of their fertile life-CONSCIOUSLY KNOWING THE CLOCK IS TICKING AND THE NO OF EGGS IS GOING DOWN and now not being able to have a baby ?
I KNOW PROBABLY ALL OF THEM DESERVE BABIES AND ARE MORE THAN DESPERATE-but dont make things so black and white-people do abort even now in the 21st century believe it or not
BRING ALL THE DEBATE ON I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO IT
2006-12-28 16:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by nusha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no no no if you and your girlfriend feel you cannot raise a child think about adoption you dont just abort a baby
2006-12-29 02:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by nicolefrenzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said the CHILD.
Thank You
This child is real, is alive and is yours and hers. A baby has every right to be born, you and your girlfriend cannot take a life out of your own selfishness.
Please refer to the following sites
http:www.abortionno.org
http:www.priestsforlife.com
http://www.silentscream.org
2006-12-28 16:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋