Realizing that there is a shortage of men (good) as most women would agree who don't have one, I often hear that there is a shortage of Good, Strong, Black Men...what is a strong black man? Is there anyone out there in YAHOO land that has a Strong Black Man?
2006-12-28 07:29:03 · 16 answers · asked by Million C 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
dont know im white
2006-12-28 07:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I have one. My husband of 6 years. We live in a small southern town so while putting up with the racial bullshit that he encounters each day, he continues to work daily, he keeps himself out of trouble and off of paper, a hard feat for any black male age 20 to 50, he helps to raise MY children by another man, and to me he is a success story. THAT my dear is a strong black man!
2006-12-28 15:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Red 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm also blessed enough to be married to one! He has a job, takes care of my son whose own father hasnt been seen in a year, respects me, my family and his own.
My brother's and uncles are also strong black men. This is a generic term coined to mean any black man who handles his business. Takes care of his responsibilities (whatever they may be) and has respect for self and others. He can be college or street educated, what matters is how he carries himself.
2006-12-28 15:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Pepsi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that a strong Black man is someone who has inner strength as well as outer strength. Takes responsibility for himself and his family. Takes responsibility for becoming financially self-reliant through education and hard work. Someone who avoids alcohol and drugs.
2006-12-28 15:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by silverside 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think the word strong should apply. how about just be a MAN. you don't get a gold star or a cookie for taking care of YOUR child, keeping a job, paying YOUR bills etc. so what is a strong black man but just a man?
2006-12-28 15:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have a strong black man he works, and put in overime pays my bills take care of his family , break my back in , Im the only baby momma, and hes home in the evening , wre talk we laugh he takes me places put god first and his family second loves his manna and his brother and sisters, never disrespect me and i can truly say that he is a strong black man
2006-12-28 15:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by slpry L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a strong black man is a perfect beast of burden.
cause with strength comes responsibility to take the tougher JOBS.
2006-12-28 15:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I Finally got my prayers answered and GOD put in my life a strong black man . Not strong physically but mentally and spiritually and is there for me in every way and is not focused on so called pimps and all that bullshit you hear on TV We focus on each other and please one on other .You must TRUST,LOVE,and
BELIEVE in GOD and everything will follow It's your realationship with eachother that gives him that STRANGTH and he will make you a STRONG woman also
2006-12-28 17:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by missrosie4you 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Supportive of his woman
Loyal to his family
Dedicated to his beliefs
Willing to share his emotional side with his woman
Willing to accept or some time fight, life's unfairness in regards to his race and sex but not make act bitter.
Willing to work every day regardless of the pay.
2006-12-28 15:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women just want a bloke whose not scared of spiders - whatever colour he is.
2006-12-28 15:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the opposite of "da white man".
2006-12-28 15:31:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋