I Just Lost My Friend....?

Question

This morning I found out the best f.u.c.k.e.n. friend that I ever had just passed away this morning. I met him here on YA, im am so hurt. Whats killing me inside is that we believe that we were meant for one another. We shared the same feeling for each other and hoped someday soon we would meet now he is gone...i cant get my thoughts togather...how am i going to cope..i just talked to him yesterday..HELP

He had told me he was sick..but I wasnt expecting it to end so quickly..he passed away in his sleep.

Vampireo3...RIP MY FRIEND!

Answer 1

Mimi,
Just know that he was able to have interacted through YA with you and that you were able to offer him friendship. We meet people that sometimes effect our lives incredibly, but these people flow through like the ebb of tides sometimes fleetingly, sometimes for a long while. Take what you have as a memory and keep it alive in your heart.

Answer 2

How horrible for you. My sympathy to you. The end of any friendship is always painful. Your thoughts are not supposed to be together this soon. Give yourself a big break here, ok? Grief has five steps. Just take a deep breath and get ready for the different stations to hit, ok? Honor his memory by going though the process, ok? Good luck!

Answer 3

I lost a couple of my friends too. The only thing you can really do is help his family cope with it too. This sounds like really bad advise, but I did this and I have gotten to realize that it was their time to leave no matter what you personaly might think. I have met other people and we are happy too, but it will never be the same and that will probably be the hardest part to realize.
~SORRY!

Answer 4

i am really sorry to hear of your loss. being someone who has also lost people close to me, i can tell you the best way to cope is to find another trusted friend, or family member, who has a caring ear, to talk to, and let out all those tears and pent up feelings. it's going to hurt for a long time, i won't deny you that, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. after you grieve (which is perfectly normal and natural) find ways to get back to your normal routine. don't let this person's death ruin your life, because i'm sure he/she wouldn't want that.

Answer 5

I'm very sorry for your loss. Its never easy to lose someone and in your situation I can definitely understand how you feel. All I can tell you is that things always happen for a reason. Take time for yourself but also surround yourself with people you love. It may be a cliche that time heals everything, but its true. Be patient, and live life like he would have wanted you to.

Answer 6

I am very sorry for your lose. However the most difficult part of life is the death of a close friend or loved one. Good luck to you and I pray God will give you the courage and wisdom to heal. God bless****

Answer 7

I am so very sorry that you lost a close friend of yours. Like always it is gonna take time to get over something that is so powerful. But i'll pray for you. May God bless you.

Answer 8

There's nothing you can do to bring him back. Remember the good things about him, and try to go on. Seek some counceling if need be. It doesn't go away completely, but it will fade.

Answer 9

i am so very sorry. this must be a huge shock to you. try to remember the fun times you had and the good things. in time, the pain will not be so intense and it will be easier for you to think of him without so much sadness. i am sorry.

Answer 10

Somethings you have no control over.I`m sorry for you.It may take some time but you`ll get past this.love a friend.