My boyfriend has a very large penis and it hurts deep inside.?

Question

I am worried he could he hurting my insides. Does anyone know of any specific trauma that could be caused in me?

Answer 1

What your boyfriend is likely to hurt deep inside is your cervix. There's not that much things deep in there other than it. What most women experience when their cervix is hit is a sharp pain. It's nothing dangerous at all if the pain's bearable.

If you find you boyfriend's hitting your cervix too often, you might want to try another sexual position that fits best for both of you.

But overall, you can't really hurt or break anything inside of a vagina if of course, sex is not forceful (rape,etc.). But if you find something is painful, it's better to stop what you're doing. Pain is you body's way of telling you to stop.

Answer 2

Large Penis Hurts

Answer 3

I had the comparable subject with my ex lady pal. Being a virgin did no longer help in any respect, could no longer even get it in first attempt. Dont difficulty approximately him being too extensive, your vagina will adjust to the form of his penis. The length is the real subject, merely attempt distinctive positions, like say putting a leg between u and him. do no longer attempt positions the place it could bypass in too a techniques, alongside with puppy style, I dont have a vagina so I cant say, yet from the seem on her face, it style of feels especially damn painful :P

Answer 4

Yes you can blame the man.

You can have trauma if he's too large for you. You can bruise the cervix, tear tissues, and become infertile from repeated damage to the cervix.

Please see a doctor and ask for help in dealing with this situation. You can have sex with a large man, but you need to know the right way to do it.

Answer 5

here's what i said to this:
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"refreshing to see a WOMAN who is not in denial about the vagina becoming loose. the cause was almost definitely because you were with a big (i'm guessing thick) penis for a prolonged period of time. due to this, he opened you up so much that an average penis can no longer satisfy you (or be satisfied by you). people have thought for years, a woman having too much sex was the culprit (her being 'loose') but it's really not the actual cause. it's because promiscuity leads to women having a DISPROPORTIONATE number of thick penises (lads with bigger penises are generally more promiscuous and less willing to be in a monogamous relationship so they play the field). so it's not the fact that the women has slept with 50 men but rather the fact that out of the 50 she slept with, 25 of them had thick cocks which stretched her out). live that kind of life long enough and your pussy will be stretched forever ad normal cocks (average or relatively thin girths) will not be able to please you the same way they would before having sex with the thicker penises. in that same light, your pussy will no longer be able to please those average cocks the same way it would before the thicker penises. this woman, will then become a size queen, REQUIRING a thick penis to please her (she will be convinced that it's because they feel better and she's more filled by them why she REQUIRES a thick penis, but it's really because her hole can no longer get satisfaction from anything less in girth because it is no longer tight). PLEASE NOT this is NO DIFFERENT from having a prolonged sexual relationship with ONE PARTNER WHO IS THICK. so whether she has had sex with 50 guys (25 which were thick) or just ONE guy that was thick, it would STILL HAVE THE SAME loosening effect on the vagina, so don't think it's the promiscuity that leads to the stretching out of the vagina.

very glad that you at least recognize that you have become loose and you're seeking ways to fix it. one way would be to do kegel exercises. you can also, buy a thin dildo and use it on yourself. your vagina will try and adapt to it and it may help you regain a bit of your tightness. also remember sex is mental. start to find ways to help you get off no matter the size of what's in you. use one finger to finger yourself and FIND A WAY to orgasm. i used to be able to only get off with tight vaginas but now that i've learned more about my body and how my mental plays a big role in satisfaction, i can also get off with a looser woman (though i still prefer tight)"

Answer 6

In most cases, women find sex with a large penis painful, mainly because it can knock against their cervix and can even cause bleeding and bruising.

Answer 7

What you need to make sure of is that you are fully turned on and that you are "wet" enough. Just enjoy lots of foreplay and get some lube, and make sure he's gentle with you. You should have no problems. O! Try other positions, like you on top that way you can control how far he goes in.

Good luck

Answer 8

Hey CJ, if she wants a morality debate, she'll ask for one. Whatever is going on, it shouldn't hurt much. Too often, women aren't properly turned on when sex happens, and that means their vagina has not extended and prepared for it.

Answer 9

switch positions so you are on top and in control of how far in his penis is inserted. And if he objects simply tell him it's that or he can just go play with himself in the corner until he learns how to have sex without causing you pain.

Answer 10

Nah, I think you're fine. Maybe you're new to sex? If so it'll get better. Just make sure you're lubricated enough & lots of foreplay.