2006-12-28 07:00:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Love her. And your grandchild.
2006-12-28 07:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What choice do you have? Love her or give her a beating? You only have one choice girl. The pregnancy is water under the bridge. You have a baby coming and you had better be ready with love and hugs. Don't make her feel bad about having a baby, she's gonna be a mom and if I'm right, she will know if she was ready or not. Who is really ready anyway?
2006-12-28 15:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advise her on the reality of the situation she is encompassing- in a loving way. Motherhood can be one of the lonliest times in a woman's life- and at the same time the most rewarding. Advise her that she will get through this and that she has a support system.
2006-12-28 15:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk with her. I know it's hard to be calm right now. She has destroyed your trust in her, and struck down your dreams for her immediate future. But she is not this one act, she will need you now more than ever. The pregnancy isn't the problem, the actions that got her pregnant (if she isn't married) is. First of all find out if she was raped, if she was, she will need extra support (still remember, it's not the child's fault who his daddy is). If she made the choice, there isn't much you can do but support her emotionally and help her make wise choices with your grandchild (do your best to stop her from killing him/her, maybe encourage adoption, or if she chooses to keep it, help her do that).
You might also want to pray about ways to help her make wise choices with her body. Premarital sex brings many negative consequences if we could just look beyond the thrill to see them. As long as she lives under your roof you can curtail her activities. She is still your daughter, under your authority until she turns 18, and then as long as she lives under your roof.
How you react now will influence your daughter's and grandchild's future. Please choose wisely.
2006-12-28 15:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Bre 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love here be there for her. She needs her mommy more then ever now and she needs all the advice and wisdom you can give. She is going to need someone to call when the time gets closer and she is nervous and she is going to need someone to call when the baby wont stop crying and has gas or when the baby isn't burping right or when she needs someone to tell her that no matter what it is great to be a mom and that she will make a good one and that you will be there to help her when ever she needs it. No girl wants there mom to turn their back on them especially when they are going to become a mom themselves.
2006-12-28 15:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about love her and support her? The way you ask this, it sounds like you are considering sending her away somewhere, or punishing her in some way. Maybe you want to re-phrase your question because the way you are asking it, it sounds like you are already passing judgment.
2006-12-28 15:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by lmnop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand you question completely, but the number one thing you should do is stand behind her and support her in all of her decisions.
2006-12-28 15:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kristin R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean what should you do to your pregnant daughter? is she young or something. IF she is let her decide what she is going to do.Adoption is always available. Just be supportive to her don't get mad
2006-12-28 15:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by snookumz24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean.....what should you do to her?
Are you upset with her? You'll just have to get over it as best you can...there is a baby on the way. Be a loving and supportive mother.
2006-12-28 15:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have her teach you how to spell Pregnant first of all.... then give her love and support because that is all she needs right now.
2006-12-28 15:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Are you mad at her for being pregnant? Just support her and be there for her emotionally. That is the most important thing right now.
2006-12-28 15:03:41 · answer #11 · answered by anna b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋