this is getting out of hand now. If the doctor says it's a BOY are we really sure anymore. what would determine what are gender is? we may have to look in another place....the big toe maybe.
2006-12-28 07:02:01
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answered by papa G 6
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Dear friend: From what you wrote I understand that you are of a certain gender, but you wish that you were of another gender. If this is correct, let me say that you are of the gender of which you were born. The mind can always be deceived, but the mirror does not lie.
If God made you a man, then that's what you are. If you were born a woman, then that's what you are. Don't let someone else's "preferred lifestyle" confuse the obvious. This whole homosexual and trans gender game that people play is self-destructive in the present world and in the eternal world to come.
Even if you went to a surgeon and changed what you have, you would still be the your birth gender.
That, my friend, is the long and short of it.
Mr. M on "gender."
2006-12-28 07:01:14
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answered by Humberto M 6
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you, my dear, are not alone. i want to change mine too. but i have decided not to, because it will take way too much time and money. im just going to have to live with it until i find another solution.
but thats me and my decision, you may want to go through with it.
my suggestion is to first talk to a counselor or go straight to a gender therapist. the counselor wil probably recommend you go to a gender therapist, and will most likely give you a list or something.
anyway, you will be required to spend quite sometime with the therapist. there, it will be determined if you have some issues that can be cleared with more therapy, maybe drugs, OR that you are actually transgendered and, to truly make you happy, change your physical body.
once transgendered is determined, you'll live life as the opp. physical sexed person for ONE year, just to make sure you really want to do it. then, you;ll go on hormones, probably go through some surgeries... and .... you'll have gone trhough one of the most important journeys of your life. ...
uh... i guess all the help i can offer you are some links...
here:
im assuming youre young....
so:
http://www.transproud.com/
http://www.antijen.org/
you can find MANY more resources online. google your questions. there are many support groups and forums to help you out.
good luck.
2006-12-28 07:27:11
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answered by louie 4
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The wording of your question is stupid, and I have a sneaking suspicion that you are too.
2006-12-28 06:56:43
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answered by Anonymous
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GO IN MY ACCOUNT N GET IT CHANGED THERE
2006-12-28 06:57:50
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answered by kawal 2
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REPORTED
2006-12-28 07:03:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Didn't that hurt?
2006-12-28 06:58:42
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answered by M 4
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OH NO!
2006-12-28 06:56:04
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answered by jaz 3
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