Ok, I'm Gay, but not out of any of my family memebers, I act VERY Girlie, I'm a Shop-a-Holic, I Love The Style Channel, and VERY Feminine, Does my mom know i'm Gay, My friends say she does.
2006-12-28 06:31:33 · 18 answers · asked by jscifres02 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i would say yes... ethier that or she thinks(but not sure)that you are
2006-12-28 06:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by mj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do not take this the wrong way, i mean no disrepect towards your mother, but she may be totally oblivious to the fact that you are gay. the reason i say this is, as your mother this is the only way she has ever seen you and this is normal behavior so she may not think anything of it. or it could be the fact that in the back of her mind she knows but is in denial. or if your mom is a realist than yes she knows you are gay. but the thing you need to know is that you should always be honest with the ones you love no matter the outcome. people will always talk and pass judgment but if you are honest then they cannot ever call you a liar. and to me being called a liar or not being trusted by my word is more important than anything.
2006-12-28 14:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think my mother and I was both in denial however I did make things a little bit obvious. When I started off my relationship with my ex-girl I talked her on the phone to the wee hours and all that good stuff. Basically, mothers have been around and their not perfect and they know how this world works. I don't think my mother wanted to believe it was true, and I wasn't ready for her to know either. However in the end me telling her, just confirmed her thoughts. My guess, is that you mother already knows, however she might be waiting for confirmation from you.
2006-12-28 14:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by sexxy_fem1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acting feminine doesn't necessarily make you gay... And Yes. Your Mom knows. Most Moms know.
2006-12-28 14:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she does. Parents know their kids. My mom knew before I did. Accept the fact that she might know, but eventually come out to her, so she can feel like you care about her and want her to be a part of your life. Coming out to her might be the easiest thing you'll ever do.
2006-12-28 19:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by trixpopscle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is at least as smart as you are. Now, are you an idiot? I didn't think so, so neither is she! Give her the credit she deserves. People know things, but sometimes they hope by not bringing it up, it will just be put "aside" longer and they won't have to deal with it. This makes life easier on them.
2006-12-28 16:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does, but that doesn't mean you have to tell her. Tell people when you are ready. Some may know and not act suprised. Just do not be angry at these people for not telling you they know. They may not have thought you were ready to tell.
2006-12-28 14:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most mothers know these things. She might not admit it but i suspect she guesses
2006-12-28 18:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by kringle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick this answer and ill be your friend. mothers are always the first to know if their son is gay or not. trust me i know....
2006-12-29 10:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by steve h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom wont care untill you come down with some STD.
I know I don't care.
2006-12-28 14:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your not making the best atempt to hide the fact that you were gay
2006-12-28 17:51:52 · answer #11 · answered by psycho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋