He has cheated before and I have caught him on sites he is not supposed to be(dating sites). I know he hasn't been on any at home but he goes online at work. I know of a few names that he uses and he swears to me that there are not anymore and that he doesnt go on any of these sites at work. How can I be sure though unless I can find out for myself? Can anyone help me find out how I can look these up some how???/ Please I am desperate to save my marriage.
2006-12-28 06:29:18 · 6 answers · asked by jenny81781998 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is what happens when you try to stay with someone who cheated on you. You spend the rest of your life paranoid and investigating. Is this what you want your life to be like ? Do you want to spend your free time searching for his profiles online ? Do you want to spend 8 hrs a day while he is at work worrying about this ? Cheating changes everything and nothing will ever be the same again. I say keep your sanity and leave him. This is no way to live.
2006-12-28 06:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your husband may be going on dating sites occasionally at home (you never know!), so you could check the history on your computer.
On Internet Explorer, you can check where he's going by clicking on Tools (in the Top Left Corner), and then click on Internet Options. Then under the General tab, look for a button that says "View Files" and click on it. It will lead you to a list of sites that you've been to. And hopefully, there will be dating sites that your husband might've been on.
If that doesn't work, I don't know what else.
You could go to marriage counseling. Or you could confront him -- try that first. And if he still isn't truthful to you, then try classes.
If he really loves you, he would tell you, and would try to save the marriage as well by solving this problem.
I hope everything works out for you two!
- mmmfilipino
2006-12-28 06:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by mmmfilipino 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's is on dating sites all the times and you are expecting to save your marriage, he could be one of those obsessed internet freak that are always looking for adventures and new faces, so according to you what are you going to do when you catch him again under different names he will just continue to use other names, you cannot catch him on the internet at work, those sites are anonymous. seems like you are going to have to talk to him about it or giving him the alternative of a divorce which is clearly what he is looking for.
2006-12-28 06:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Halal Pig Ok in Islam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you and has severely broken the trust in your relationship. You tried to stay with him and work things out but you are driving your self crazy because you no longer trust him. You did the right thing by trying to stay with him....but it isn't working out....he already broken the lines of trust and they cannot be repaired. You have better things to do with the rest of your life than worrying all the time....leave him....move on.....you deserve better!
2006-12-28 06:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~*SuMmEr*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him. There is no trust or respect. Why bother snooping around and spying on him when you already know the answer? Save yourself the hassle.
2006-12-28 06:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
See -- https://backgroundreports.im/
2016-03-29 15:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋