i'm close with my bf's sis-in-law but they are now separated because she told me the reason that they need time off from each other for awhile. i understand because they always seem to fight about everything!!!but she told me and the others especially the other family members of her husband that this is just temporary and she even told me that she still wants his husband to be the guy for her and even told us that she wants him to be the father of her kids. i believed her and being a friend i thought i knew her but not until i witnessed something...i saw her with another man, she was being sweet to him like a cuddling kiss!!she saw me and pretended that nothing happend when i left she text me saying that she felt bad for wat i saw and she knows that she could trust me...but this is so wrong!should i tell the brother whom i looked at as a brother or should i confront her???im in between!!!
2006-12-28 06:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by kang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would tell my boyfriend what I saw and let him decide whether or not he wants to tell his brother about. If they are separted, they both have the right to see other people and it would be wrong of her to ask you to cover up and lie for her...if she choses do date, that is her choice, but she has no right to put you in the middle of it.
If she is in a public place (public meaning any place anyone else might possibly see them) kissing on another guy, it should be considered public information and that is what I would tell her if she got upset about the brother finding out, regardless of who he finds it out from. It is wrong of her to expect you to keep it a secret by throwing in the "know I can trust you" as she obviously has not been honest with you about her intentions and I would tell her just that.
2006-12-28 06:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure in a manner ur incorrect for snooping around, he depended on you to easily inspect his tat %. yet you went and regarded with the aid of his different emails... i does no longer want a gf it is like that
2016-11-24 20:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by donenfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a toughy this is er choice i dont know what u should do i thikn u should just tell er up front and say something like i know this is is rude but i am cocerned about this and just see what happens she should understand if she really care about er opinons she wont take it personally but if she does she doesnt care sometimes you just need to take that chance. and GOOD LUCK
2006-12-28 06:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
e-mail is always a good starting point. That way you can review what you're sending and can make sure you don't hurt any feelings.
2006-12-28 06:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it. if you interfer, they will turn on you.
2006-12-28 06:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋