I can not have an orgasim. I've tried. It doesn't matter if i'm by myself or with my boyfriend. I get right to that point then all of a sudden I lose interest completely. I don't even ever really get turned on and I wonder if not being able to orgasim has something to do with it. I'm only 22 years old I feel like this should not be hapening. It's begun to really cause problems in my relationship. Does anyone have any suggestions? or should I just speak with my doctor about this? Thanks in advance!! =)
2006-12-28 06:15:28 · 3 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
We have tried oral, still yet...nothing! I haven't always been that way. Years ago I really enjoyed it (even without the big "pay off"). I just get to that point then I lose it. Thanks for your advice everyone....I think i'm just going to talk to my doctor! =)
2006-12-29 01:10:18 · update #1
Alot of girls don't orgasm because they just don't know how. And MOST girls don't orgasm when they are with their boyfriends. If it really bothers you I'd try talking to your doctor, you may have some hormonal problems. But before you do that, one night just lay in bed, relaxed, no pressure and get to know yourself. There are also some great websites that have techniques and stories other girls.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 07:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not at all...I have been having sex for 4 years and had my first orgasm this past summer. All my past partners could not go deep enough for it. I can only get it on top with a certain angle. I thought about it way too much in past relationships too..and I think thinking about it that much prevented it a bit too...
It happened when I least expected it. Even now when I try to have one and start thinking about it during the act, I can't get there. Good luck! Practice makes perfect...and try different angles and positions. :)
2006-12-28 16:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your boyfriend tried oral? If your not reaching an orgasm at any cost maybe you should see a doctor. Maybe your perdium nerve is damaged and isn't allowing you the pleasure to be reached. If that isn't the case, has there been any rape or sexual abuse in your past. In many cases, if a young lady has been raped or molested, their sex drive drops and lose interest in any sexual relations.
Good luck and seek immediate attention!!!
2006-12-28 17:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋