My friend is always taking things that are said, by either friends or strangers, negatively. She is extremely defensive when ever anything is said. Our daughters play sports together, when someone ask what was wrong and mentioned that her daughter had a bad night the night before. She got extremely upset thinking that the lady was putting her daughter down, when she was only asking because she was concerned.
2006-12-28 05:57:24 · 11 answers · asked by MelissaJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like there is something else going on here. I think that you best bet would be to back off and give her time to heal the other area.
If you feel comfortable you may want to try to get to know her better and create a friendship so you can help her out. She may just feel neglected, lonely, stressed out. There are a million reasons for her to react this way.
The number one thing to keep in mind is that you never know what is going on in somebody elses life.
2006-12-28 06:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be depressed and needs to regroup.. Make sure when she is with you and things are said to you, you respond positively and try to set an example. Or maybe she doesn't care what anyone thinks. If it bothers you enough and you still want to be friends, talk it out.
2006-12-28 06:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anna O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million) decrease a while together with her (bodily and socially) 2)shop silent while she starts making a fuss - there is no longer something which you will say to have her substitute her suggestions -it somewhat is pointless. 3) Energize and reenergize your person advantageous capability via striking with people who're advantageous and shifting up the business employer.
2016-10-19 02:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That`s when you start to move this person out of your life. Nobody needs negative people around them..
2006-12-28 06:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~ Brittany ~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be anything from a guilty conscious about something, to marital problems, to menopause to....hundreds of things. Try asking her.
2006-12-28 06:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people need the drama in their lives to feel important. Avoid it and her before she sucks you into the drama vacuum!
2006-12-28 06:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by oceanblue_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just insecure about something, ask what's wrong! Be a friend and tell her that you are just concerned.
2006-12-28 06:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to deal with this person. Obviously she has issues.
2006-12-28 06:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by georgia k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get away from them before they drag you on with their negativity....
2006-12-28 05:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on...some people cannot be helped no matter how close they are to you
2006-12-28 06:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋