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Becuase you do none of the things that the woman does that he will -cheat with/leave you for- and the relationship is all about you. Do you agree?

2006-12-28 05:39:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

Of course some men will cheat regardless, but if a woman does not do the bare minimum he's guaranteed to cheat.

2006-12-28 05:47:10 · update #1

12 answers

I do not agree with you.

2006-12-28 05:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0 0

Though I do feel that your statement is very one-sided, I do realize that, sometimes, women are not always at the receiving end of relationship abuse and/or neglect. Sure, men are more likey to cheat in a relationship and conjure up bogus reasons for cheating; nevertheless, sometimes they do have good reasons for wanting to remove themselves from a relationship. When you have a girlfriend or wife who shows no regard for your feelings and/or needs, it is no surprise that you would want to leave. Actually, your actions in such an instance would definitely be well warranted. However, and given that this does happen, it is not the only reason why men cheat and/or leave relationships. Speaking as a woman who has been cheating on by her boyfriend, sometimes their reasons are just plain-out selfish ones. Take my relationship for instance. Before my boyfriend cheated our relationship was great. We were the best of friends, talked to each other regularly, NEVER argued, had a great love life, HAD FUN, and never had to deal with any jealousy issues. One day, he met a young lady via the internet, and without my knowledge, started conversing with her over the telephone as well as in person. Three months later, he sleeps with her and an hour after that, calls me and confesses. Now, I must say that I was very disappointed in his behavior, but being the fair person that I am I allowed him to state his case on the matter and explain to me just why he did it. Do you know what his explanation was? Do you think he felt I wasn't doing enough? No, that was not it. Do you think he was just wanting to hurt me? No, that was not it either. His reason: because he wanted to have another woman on his "roster." He didn't feel that he had slept with enough women in his lifetime, so he found a woman to sleep with and boost his "numbers!" How selfish is that? I'm not saying this to suggest that all men cheat and/or leave their mates for this reason, but I am saying it to show that it is not always the woman's fault as you have suggested.

2006-12-28 14:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by lacha_1980 2 · 0 0

I think your a little mixed up, how do you know what the other woman will do, that no none of these things he will leave you for.
This made up woman may be a sexpot , fantastic in bed and does things to him that he really wants and likes, I mean lays it on him , fine. Does this sound like the woman you made up he may cheat with, up in your mind. If it is you better watch out because she sounds pretty hot to trot.

2006-12-28 13:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0 0

No guarantees in life either way, and why be or get or stay in a relationship if there is no trust, mutual respect and the knowledge that you have truly found the one for you, no need to look elsewhere? If you or her are unsure of each other fidelity and/or commitment, just move on.

2006-12-28 13:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0 0

Your post isn't terribly clear. However if someone isn't happy in a relationship they should work on fixing things or leave. There is no reason to cheat, and many people have morals, consciences, and are above such behavior (thankfully).

2006-12-28 13:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

Nope some men are dogs no matter how good you treat them.So I dont agree with you at all!

2006-12-28 13:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0 0

men and women are like dawgs, they cheat even if you do what they want, its just part of human nature, not everyone wikl cheat , but we all think about it

2006-12-28 13:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 0 0

If he cheated with you while he was with the person before you, then he will do it again.

2006-12-28 13:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes.

2006-12-28 13:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 1 0

look into their past it may reveal what they might do in their future.

2006-12-28 14:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0 0

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