How would you propose an open marriage to your wife? There is little intimacy between the two of us, and I dont want to separate, how would i go about asking to see other people?
2006-12-28 05:27:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ask her if she wants to go to a swingers bar new years eve...im going with my wife ...its fun
2006-12-28 05:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point? You might as well be single. Having relations with other people isn't going to make your marriage stronger, so let the marriage go. If you two both agree and there's not kids to get involed in the drama how about having some fun with a friend together? That's always sexy. But I got to tell you, if things aren't hot in the bedroom, it's becuase she's ticked about something. Or you can ask her to cuff you to the bed and let her do what she wants. Maybe SHE needs an outlet that makes it more interesting for her so she can get into it more.
2006-12-28 13:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want to see other people, then let your wife go. Why don't you want to separate? I think you need to talk to her about the intimacy and work on that before just going right for being with others.
2006-12-28 13:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by redrum42482 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have it both ways, bud.
What happened to the intimacy that did exist between you? Did it evaporate totally because of her? Or do you share some of the blame?
If your relationship is truly tanked and beyond repair, then bite the bullet and get a divorce.
Then go take your chances in the dating/swinging pool.
Not before...
2006-12-28 13:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth did you get married, if you wanted to see other people.
Maybe if you put forth as much energy in to saving / fixing your marriage.....as you do into wanting an open marriage.. hell who knows your marriage might be the best thing that has ever happened to you.
2006-12-28 13:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by ahg30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. Don't leave that mess hanging like that. Get it out in the air so it can be easier on both of you. YOu never know, she might go for that and your relationship might get better from the honesty.
2006-12-28 13:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Spleakie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in an open marriage! you need to talk to your wive and tell her that you are not happy sexually. also try spicing things up with toys, lotions, costumes, and other things of that sort!
2006-12-28 13:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by D.J.4ever 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
by divorcing her..there is so much STDs out there. Just talk to her.
2006-12-28 15:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you love me but i need nookie now give it up or im steppin out...kidding kidding..talk about it see what she says
2006-12-28 13:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is wrong, you should have told her this crap before you married her. You are selffish and WRONG.
2006-12-28 13:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by missy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋