alright people here is the first serious question ive ever asked
2006-12-28 05:26:30 · 21 answers · asked by hotdogwrinkle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is the first serious question ive asked on here and i gotta know if thats alright i dont think its wrong i mean our feelings are mutual so it shouldnt matter
2006-12-28 05:28:47 · update #1
and im the guy whos 15 and the girl is 25 and its more than just sex so yeah our feelings are mutual
2006-12-28 05:31:52 · update #2
Yes its wrong! Your Just starting out & not on the same level with a 25yr old. No matter what it will always be like a parent -child relationship. It may not seem like it now, but it will when the newness wears off. Also, you will miss out on a lot of things that the older person has already been through because the younger person will be trying to be at the older persons level. I know 4 couples who tried to make it work, it did for awhile, then it got really bad. Think about it carefully. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-28 05:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sherrie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay read the question wrong. Your 15 you should not be having sex with a 25 year old there is something mentally wrong with this woman, she is taking advantage of you and even though I'm sure you think sex is the best thing, this psycho could be passing you STD's. You should tell your parents because something is definitley not right with an adult having sex with a child (teenager) whatever, your not ready for this and you should be very very careful. Just because she is a girl and you are a boy doesn't mean it's not a form of child molestation. This women could turn out to be very dangerous and I'm not kidding at all, you need to tell someone before something bad happens. You could get her pregnant and you will be paying for a baby at 15 for the rest of your life, she can give you aids, herpes, god knows where a person like this has been. I'm telling you man, heed the warning and tell an adult you trust about this person pronto.
2006-12-28 13:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god it's definitly not good. Love isn't wrong, but seriously what could a 25 year old possibly want from a 15 year old. Why can't they date someone closer to their own age. Do they have social problems or maturity issues or what? It isn't even legal! With love comes sex and that is definiatly out of the question here. All I can say for the fifteen year old is, at this point in your life, be young and have fun with people your own age, you're still a kid. A 25 year old even if they don't act like it is an adult and in this situation they arn't one.
2006-12-28 14:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love when I was 15 and now I'm 27. I wouldn't say it's wrong but you have to be careful with what is legal. If it's real love...play it low key until the 15 year old is legal...if it's true love you'll live happily ever after. On the other side. I dated a guy that was 21 when I was 17 and I was in love with the fact that this older guy was into me. Make sure that the feelings are true. You wouldn't want to get into trouble for false reasons. Good luck!
2006-12-28 13:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is but then its not a 15 year old should live life a little while longer before worrying about falling inlove. The 25 year old should grow up. But then if you both cant go with out talking to one another fo a long period of time and its not just sex. Then forget the wrong and the rights and follow your heart.
2006-12-28 13:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong in the eyes of the law! She could be charged with child abuse! She has had much more time to experience life than you have. You need to get away from this woman and find someone closer to your age. As the old saying goes, "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, it's meant to be." But, you need to become an adult before she comes back...when you are 18, she will be 28 (almost 30)...will you BOTH feel the same way in 3 years!?! If you wait 3 years, then try this relationship and it still works, go for it...but stay away from her for 3 years! (Otherwise, if she is charged with child abuse, she could be sent off for MORE than 3 years!!!)
2006-12-28 13:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by ConcernedMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. A 15 year old doesn't know what love is yet. And if something were to happen the 25 year old can go to jail. Utill 18 you need to stick with someone the same age or atleast close.
2006-12-28 13:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction is yes, it is wrong. It isn't the age difference, it's because 15 is still a minor. If the ages were 25 and 35 I wouldn't see a problem with it. You can't control who you love. But you have to be careful because one person is still a minor!!
2006-12-28 13:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Brian and Kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 15 year old can seem very mature, but the bottom line is that their brain has not stopped growing into it's full maturity. I would question the 25 year olds ability to connect with people his/her own age...
2006-12-28 13:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesn't see the age it happens. if u both really love eachother than i don't think there is anything wrong but yes there is a problem both of ur parents will not agree to ur relation & u both have to suffer a lot of problem. so u both have to thing is u really want to spend ur life. ofcorse her parents are ready to get her married becoz she is 25 & ur age is 15. so its better u stop loving her.
u will get a lot of girls this is not ur age that u will not get a girl. i know now u are thinking i'm wrong but seriously there is a lot of problem that can occure .
leave it forget her concentrate in ur study
best wishes
2006-12-28 14:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by simple girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋