when ever girls have their periods i my class boys are so keen to know girls personal matter and for me it is embarassing can you give me a solution to make boys no keen to know about this
2006-12-28 05:02:59 · 18 answers · asked by rajatah 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
How on earth do they know this? Good hygiene and silence will keep your private matters private.
2006-12-28 05:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ugh boys will be boys
but this is a part of being a girl and you respect yourself for that.
getting your period is that beautiful passage into womanhood.
and whoeevr tells you it is unclean or you should be embarrassed about it, dont listen to them..
if i were you id shove a tampon/pad in their face and be like look you wanna know what this is for?
or jus dont talk to boys like that. they will grow up and realize that all women have this and plus we are stronger than they are in terms of perseverence so we can deal with this while they cant so be proud to be a woman.
take it as a privilege not an embarrassment. give them a lecture on not disrespecting women like that. and let me tell you something you may not know.
boys once they hit puberty go through 28 day hormonal cycles too..they dont get mentruation like us but it does affect the minds of some boys.
so they think there is something embarrassing about us because they are immature and at this time their hormones are raging so stay away from those guys...!
well congrats sweety and think of the bright side not that your gonna have to deal with this for another forty years or so. it is te process that allows life to continue on this earth rememeber that
everything about being a woman is empowering and not embarrassing.
love
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oh yes and when you get to high school or older or whatever guys will still be quesy about it cuz they always have a little bit of immaturity at any age but they willbe careful not to look in a girl's purse if they arent total bastards because they know what to expect. some of the guys i know are like that.
2006-12-28 05:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no reason for the boys to know what is going on with you personally. At 13, you may not carry a purse, but a backpack, you can keep tampons in a discreet carrying case that often looks like an eyeglass case. If you use pads, keep them in your purse or backpack discreetly, and then change between classes or after lunch time.
2006-12-28 05:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys are imature. but just think, in the long run, they have to deal with it as much as we do. at that age, they dont really understand anything. so if they start giving you a hard time, just tell him "well at least i've hit puberty already kiddo"
but in all honesty, its nothing to be embarassed about. every girl will have it happen to them. dont let them go thru your backpack or purse. go to the restroom between classes so they wont even notice. get a really cute coin purse or something to hold tampons or pads in.
my bf is 24, we've been together over 3.5 years. when he goes thru my purse he still pulls out all my tampons and panty liners and makes funny faces. its just something they will never truely understand and is therefore foreign and gross to them. dont worry about it.
2006-12-28 05:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 13:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i don't really know what to say because the boys at my middle school were very disgusted by the matter... maybe the boys will be grossed out if you give them gruesome details. but if you don't feel comfortable doing that, talk to a teacher about it.
2006-12-28 12:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by emily.grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say ASK YOUR MOM. I'm sure she'd love to have a conversation with you about it. Or tell the boys that it is just non of their business. Or act like "OMG you do not know what it is, Are you OK?!" like if there is something wrong with them. or just ignore them and laugh at them lol. that should work. do not let them get to you. ignore them. and laugh it off
2006-12-28 05:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really has nothing to do with them and if I understand your question correctly, it could be classed as sexual harassment and you should tell them that. I'm a teenager but I'm a boy so maybe it would be better talking to a girl.
2006-12-28 05:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well next time you start dont tell anyone not even your friends.try to use tampons because you can wear them for up to 8 hours that will make it easier to keep it a secret
2006-12-28 05:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have tampons and sanitary napkins that are "travel" size and are really small. maybe you should look into those, so they're not as noticeable and easy to hide. http://www.kotex.com/na/index.asp
also, tell the boys they are immature and if it doesn't stop- take it to a teacher. you shouldn't have to deal with this.
2006-12-28 05:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by guawsgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋