2006-12-28 04:58:23 · 11 answers · asked by bunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay- let's clearly define this communication thing for you- men/boys don't understand our subtle ways.
ask him to coffee and talk to him- then tell him that it would be nice to get to now him better. talk about stuff you both like, boys attention span is limited [sex is always on the brain] so be careful.
keep to daytime the untill its clear the "type" of relationship you want to have. its safe to say that sex can wait for a long time- it takes months to really know a person- yet hormones can really screw it all up. be safe.
woman/girls tend to believe that physical attention means they care- NOT true, its hormones.
[rule- you invite you pay- if he offers, then say next time-thanks]
2006-12-28 05:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can MAKE anyone like you....if you have to force it, then it's not natural. The best thing to do is be yourself and enjoy life. A smart boy will see how happy and confident you are as an individual...and will want to be a part of that. Just be friendly, sociable, and honest. The worst thing you can do is pretend to be someone you're not....because you can't fake it forever, and when the real you is shown, the boy might freak out and feel betrayed. He might resent you for wasting his time in trying to get him to like someone who doesn't really exist.
2006-12-28 05:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Texascutie07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can really do. If you wanted to sacrifice who you are for this guy, then interest yourself with things he likes and do what he does. For example, if he likes skateboarding then learn some skateboarding lingo. If you don't want to leave your real self behind in the pursuit of this boy, just remain yourself and act normal. If he doesn't seem into you, then he isn't attracted to your type and you shouldn't try to pursue him.
2006-12-28 05:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by HBisChiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make anyone like you. It is strictly up to that person and how they value you. If you like a boy that much and he doesn't like you back then don't sweat it. Look at it as a loss for him and not for you. Once you realize that, then you have finally built up a little thing I call self-confidence and esteem.
2006-12-28 05:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't and shouldn't want to "make" anyone like you. Be the best "YOU" you can be and the right boy will come along. You will not have to coax them at all.
2006-12-28 05:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes, what he's into, and learn everything about it. Laugh at his jokes, flirt with him openly, and dress nice for him.
Then, cry because you sacrificed individuality on a mere boy.
2006-12-28 05:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kay well if you like this guy try and make him notice you. I'd walk by his locker and drop a book right next to him. Just play hard to get and they will want you. If he was in one of my classes i would ask he to help me b/c i didn't understand what i was being taught. Just make him notice you, talk to him.
Good Luck!
2006-12-28 05:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by dragonflygurl_32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! If a boy can't like you for who you are than he doesn't deserve you.
2006-12-28 05:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make a boy like u let him no or tell a friend to tell him.whocares wat they think as long as they no how they feel.but in a matter of time they start to like u.and im not telling u this so can embarres urself im sayin this wit experience.trust me i dont wanna let someone down or hurt especially wen it comes to relationships.
2006-12-28 05:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Showdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make' anybody like you, you can get to know them and maybe the'll like you....
2006-12-28 05:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋