Is Flirting on line with other women considered cheating when u are married?
2006-12-28 04:29:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope not... I don't think so
2006-12-28 04:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there are different levels of flirting... are you flirting b/c you are bored and looking to see what else is out there? that kind of flirting is dangerous and could lead to possible meeting, and all kinds of trouble. Most flirting involves sexual innuendoes and one party usually becomes sexually aroused. I think the point that that happens, things become more than just flirting and border on "cyber" cheating.
I'd hate it if i found my spouse chatting with another woman and fantasizing about her. I would feel betrayed.
2006-12-28 12:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by freedomgirl022000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is depending on the woman your involved with. A lot of women will leave their husbands for looking at porn online. Even if you tell her and she tells you it doesn't bother her, it does! All women don't necessarily think about it and may feel their relationship is perfectly safe and everyone is happy they are still subconsciously thinking about what it would take for it to end. The best way to answer your question is to think about how you would feel if you found out she was doing that to you? Would it bother you at all? Good luck and God bless.
2006-12-28 12:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by littlebluebear22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you call "flirting". If you are having cyber sex or romantic "love" talk--cheating. If you are just talking to people and feel nothing more than friendship, then it's neither flirting nor cheating, in my opinion. Also, depends on your marriage--are you being honest with your wife about it?
2006-12-28 12:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should not be flirting if you are married. Talking is ok but flirting is a NO NO!!
2006-12-28 12:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by smores 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you are cheating her out on the respect you owe her. Your vows didn't mention anything about on line chatting (flirting) being okay.
2006-12-28 12:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Were you to be speaking to your computer tech support, and flirted about meeting them at their beach in India, and you are in Peoria, then that would be harmless, because obviously, you aren't flying to India. But, if you are flirting on some sex site, chat room, or a dating site, then YES. It's cheating.
2006-12-28 12:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my husband and I would both agree that flirting is one thing......and cheating is another.
Flirting = complimenting way of dress or hair, or telling someone they are pretty
Online I am not sure about....that sounds kind of dangerous and mysterious and could be detrimental to a lot of things.
2006-12-28 12:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by mouse4211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It hurts SO bad to know that your man would rather flirt with someone that to flirt with you. Work on the marriage!
2006-12-28 12:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you flirt off line and how does your wife feel about it? Most of all what would you think if your wife did it?
2006-12-28 12:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT flirt at all! you wouldnt like it if she went behind your back to go on the stupid computer to flirt with guys she doesnt even know, i wouldnt do it, it could lead to serious trouble.
2006-12-28 12:40:58 · answer #11 · answered by Belle!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋