what other people think of me. im very kind,caring, honest and good fun and i never let anyone down if i can help it. but im always worrying about what people will think of the decisions i make. why should i care so much ?
2006-12-28 04:19:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You want to be accepted for what you are, but have probably not always felt that, so you are left to wonder. The thing is, you are who you were meant to be. Don't worry about what others think, you have value, just because you "are", and have traits and quirks that others will appreciate if they get to know you. Enjoy the differences in you, and enjoy life. Don't worry about what others think, life is WAY too short, and you are too special. :) Practice doing it, not worrying, change your thoughts from that, and enjoy something, even little, about your life, or day. I wish you the best.
2006-12-28 04:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by oceansnsunsets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to care about what others think of you. We are all trying to "put our best face on" because we generally want others to like us and think well of us. The problem is when this over-caring takes over your life and you can't interact normally in social situations and/or with others. That happened to me and I had to work through it, not by doing over the top things to show people that I don't care about their opinion, but by simply doing things that make me happy and not worrying about the needs and wants of the rest of the world. The truth is that you don't need the whole world to love you (and they never will anyway) to live a happy and fulfilling life..all you need to do is enjoy each day and the happiness yopu bring to yourself will transcend into those around you and will fill them feelings of joy and happiness that will make them want to be around you and in turn like you..thats what i have to say..remember it
2006-12-28 04:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are seeking acceptance from others, once u accept yourself for who you are u will begin to care less of what others think of you. People will always have an opinion about something but does their opinion have to be right? It is how YOU think of yourself that matters not what others think.
2006-12-28 04:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by justified_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not the only one. lots and lots of people care about what people think of the thngs they do. you work so hard not to judge people, u care if they judge you. nothing to worry about, just don't let it stop you from doin what you love.
2006-12-28 04:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by hack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want everyone to like you.
Nobody likes everybody,so give yourself a break and be like the rest of us normal ,with people who like and dislike us.
You'll drive yourself into an early grave trying to please all the people all the time.
2006-12-28 19:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to worry what other people might think of you... but don't worry too much okay??
loosen up a little girl.. =)
2006-12-28 04:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by nheyznheyz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep doing the right thing and people will notice.
2006-12-28 04:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by SKYDOGSLIM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think about yourself to much
2006-12-28 21:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by lutamicra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know; myself, I am what I am and if you like me, fine, if not, whatever.
2006-12-28 04:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be your all of what you said ..................its hard to find people like you ........don't worry to much
happy new year
2006-12-28 04:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by angies_angel_eyes2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋