I've got cancer. This guy said he loved me, and hasn't spoken to me for a few days, i can't wait. I organized a date, and today he didn't want to speak to me. I am starting to feel that i shouldn't care about life and people. But i'm a really sympathetic and empathetic person. I wanna be more shielded and tough. Is there anything i can do?
2006-12-28 04:19:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm sure it's cancer dude.
2006-12-28 04:23:02 · update #1
It might be that he doesn't know what to say to you about the cancer. YOUR desease is making HIM aware of his OWN mortality. I've seen it before. You have to understand the way the human mind works. If it really IS cancer, I suggest that you get to the nearest Cancer Treatment Center of AMerica for help. Someone in my family just died of cancer and his dr was lying to him about his condition the entire time. Telling him his bloodwork was ok when in truth the cancer was spreading. This place had a free phone # where you can call for a video. Just act normal around this guy and he might come around. I'm betting he is just uncomfortable around you because of your condition and he doesn't know what to say.
2006-12-28 04:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, you have to care about life to BEAT the CANCER! You need all your energy to do that. Then worry about being gay, once your a "cancer survivor." I feel he really does love you but is just a bit freaked out, I mean, when you care about someone that's got a life threatening illness you feel cheated for them as well as yourself. So how does one make them feel better when you feel bad for yourself? My husband died of Aids, and I know what he's going through, but he has to get over it and realize that time is what its all about, and making USE of that time in the best and greatest use of all. Love.
2006-12-28 07:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people out there that really do care. You need to go out and find someone who cares and actually talks to you. You should continue to care about people. The whole world is not like that jerk
2006-12-28 04:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha youve got cancer, lmao thats some funny stuff right there. what could make this even better? if there wasnt a cure lol to bad there isnt acure
2006-12-28 08:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by psycho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is CARE ABOUT YOURSELF. Your naturally empathetic traits will take care of the rest.
2006-12-28 04:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"This guy" is scared. Too often when people reveal this to their friends it scares them away. I've seen it happen at work. Anyway now is the time for you to focus on yourself, physically and spiritually.
2006-12-28 06:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by mykl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure its cancer boy!
2006-12-28 04:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
pray to God and you will hav guidance
2006-12-28 04:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by CedDigorry 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
repent being a homosexual is wrong
2006-12-28 05:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by cole the basher dude 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
what?
2006-12-28 04:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋