okay im a freshie and i'm not really allowed to have a boyfriend...so i just choose not to like guys but its hard. i HATE being the only chik in my 'group' who doesnt have a bf....i see all my frends with their guys and they r all so happy and sometimes i just want my own guy to hold hands with and hug in the halls and kiss in the rain(lol)....and whats worse is i have alotta guy frends that are very attractive and one of them told me they liked me. and i like him too but of course i played it off with a laugh and a shove and that was it. so...im confused. i CANT go behind my parents back cuz theres no point(they always find out) but...idk...im just kinda tired of being alone i guess and i need some advice. Guys and gals help me out...plz.....thanx
2006-12-28 04:14:07 · 8 answers · asked by hillary 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think you're confused at all (apart from your reason for posting it in the LGBT section).
I think you need to start asserting yourself, proving to your parents that you can be responsible and not under their constant guardianship. You need to talk to them and tell them how you are feeling. What you want from a bf and just what boundaries you intend to stick to in your relationship with him. Holding hands huggin' and kissin is okay - it's not gonna get you pregnant. Question is are you old enough and mature enough to not go further - while you're still subject to your parent's wishes?
2006-12-28 04:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid, trust me, do as your parents tell you.
You're right, there's no point in going behind their back, they WILL find out and you WILL suffer for it.
Just grab your teddybear and have a good hug.
You'll have your time in the sun later. Each in their own time.
2006-12-28 12:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you do know that they cant lock you in your room 4 ever now can they. .... go for what your heart says if you like this guy alot then go for it but this guy has to have more than looks he has to have a personality if this guy is the biggest jerk in the school then screw him but if his is sweet caring and just doesn't want to get in your pants (no offense to your friend at all) then dont
2006-12-28 12:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by amber l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender section is the right place for this question you have much bigger problems than not having a boy.
2006-12-28 12:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are wack, get a guy girl!
2006-12-29 04:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, u need to get out of your shell. if u won',t then when? its just that ur parents find it hard so they keep denying that u're growing up.
2006-12-28 12:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by modstar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm..thats tricky..idk what ur parents are like..but maybe you should just talk to them and explain ur feelings..what could it hurt..
2006-12-28 12:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by KIP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you'll grow past it.
2006-12-28 12:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋