Alright. My bestfriend, is gay, and I've known him for..god..6 years or so, and I'm actually..starting to like him. But he's gay, and I don't know what to do. I've tried moving on, but it's just gotton worse when I've seen him date.
Any advice? and Please..No bashing.
2006-12-28 03:30:31 · 6 answers · asked by x__Ziggy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have two options: Either don't desire to sleep with your best friend, or get a sex change operation.
2006-12-28 04:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry honey. Unless he's got even an bit of bisexual feelings, you're not going anywhere with this.
If he is able to muster up whatever he needs to try it with you, it's not likely going to be what you were hoping for, and he's going back to men. You, on the other hand, will find it even more difficult as you've now gotten your taste of the forbidden fruit (as it were).
Best Idea - tell him you need to find someone because he's starting to look good. It'll let him know what you're saying, and it shouldn't embarass you if you say it with a smile. Maybe you can enlist his help in finding someone you can fall for and who falls for you. :-)
2006-12-28 11:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect who he is as a person. One of my best friends is gay and we are attacked to one another. HOWEVER, we always respect the other ones lifestyle. We love one another dearly and are best friends, but we respect the boundaries. He has become like a brother to me. Control your emotions and look outside the box. You will be fine.
2006-12-28 11:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. If he is your best friend it shouldn't be too hard. I'm sure he will understand. If he is completely gay, he will know what to say to you. If not, maybe you might get what you want.
2006-12-28 11:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he's in a real bad relationship. He wont realize it but you will. when it gets to the point that he appears to be absolutly miserable then you go in to comfort him.
2006-12-28 11:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it sucks for you that he is full blown gay. Try talking to him maybe?
2006-12-28 11:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by PHD Mike. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋