I'm 23 and I have a couple of more years of college and then I graduate. Yeah!!! I've been with my bf for year and 8 months. TEll me your opinons please. Thanks!!!
2006-12-28 03:12:56 · 12 answers · asked by shy girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Finish your education first. If you love him after that then get married. Mid 20's is a good time for marriage. Put off the kids for a couple of years to settle into your marriage. Then, go for it!
2006-12-28 04:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until you've been out of college FIVE YEARS.
There's a good reason for this. You see, it's easy to be in love when you're in college. There's a certain lack of reality about the college experience where your only responsibility is to attend class, study, and maybe work for your basic living expenses. And no matter how much you have it together in college, it's no preparation for the real world and its attendant pressures of having a career and paying your bills.
You will change more in the five years after leaving school than you will for the rest of your life. Your goals in life may change radically. So will your friends, your tastes, and career choices. Now after five years of this growth, what happens if your husband grows in a different direction? And what happens if suddenly you have nothing in common anymore?
Let me put it this way. The summer after graduation, I attended eight weddings of friends. Ten years later, seven of those eight couples are divorced, and the eighth couple has had major troubles. Meanwhile, those friends of mine who waited to get established in life have enjoyed far happier and stabler marriages.
As far as children go? Early 30s.
2006-12-28 11:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number and shouldn't determine anything. Your mental age is what you should go by. Two people can be the same age but one can be really mature and one really immature. You should only get married if you are mentally mature and know what a huge committment it is. So many immature people get married and end up divorced because they were not ready for the committment.
I had my first baby when I was 17 and I got married when I was 19. My husband and I have been together for five years now and have a very strong relationship. So it really all depends on your mental age.
2006-12-28 11:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by ~*SuMmEr*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on each person for example I married at 20 and had my first son at 22 and I think that was one of the best decisions I've ever made. Of course as one of the other answers said fisical age is not as important as mental.
2006-12-28 11:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by teban 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
between 30 and 35
2006-12-28 11:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best age would be in the late 20's around 26 or 27 young enough to keep up with the children and be active and playful
2006-12-28 12:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry at 25 and have kids at 35!!!
2006-12-28 11:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
late 20's to get married, early 30's to have kids
2006-12-28 11:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by shane892000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry at 25 have kids at 30, by the way is he the only man you've been with, are you sure he's the one?
2006-12-28 11:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Tabatha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While everyone is different and to each his/her own, I think pushing a stroller around after 35 is INSANE!!!
2006-12-28 11:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋