okay i have a three month babyboy and i have tried to call his father for the past three days cause i need some family history since my babybis really sick and he seem not to answer me at all i even txt message him left him voicemails what should i do? does he even care about his baby?????!!!
2006-12-28 03:03:56 · 26 answers · asked by lonelygirl2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont know this guy but it sounds weird a father wouldnt contact you if youre messages stated you needed contact for your sons welfare... if its urgent can you contact a relative of his for the info, like his mum or dad?
2006-12-28 03:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could very well be and he probably doesn't have the nerve to tell you ,,,, It just might be that he's gotten himself into a situation with the baby and all that makes him uncomfortable ,,,, And he probably feels that distance from this is the answer and a solution to the problem ,,,, But you can't be totally certain until he does answer ,,,, I wouldn't put my life on hold for him though were I you ,,,, Where medical information is concerned ,,,, Which is pretty important ,,,, Then I would consider contacting his parents or other immediate family members ,,,, You have a logical and important reason for doing this so you can't be blamed or held accountable for doing something he might consider wrong ,,,, You might consider that if he can't be found through your own efforts or family or friends ,,,,, then maybe you should file a missing persons report with the local authorities ,,,,
2006-12-28 03:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from his actions its easy to assume that he doesn't care, but don't jump the gun. If you've called numerous times, left messages, and texted him...you've done your part. Isn't it possible that he doesn't have his phone? Or maybe he's in a situation that prevents him from calling (ie: jail). I'm only saying this to say give him the benefit of doubt, you don't know what his situation may currently be. Hopefully whatever sickness your baby has can be help w/o knowing his father's history immediately, therefore, direct your focus on getting your baby back healthy. If knowing his father's history is needed immediately contact a close relative of his (ie: mother, father, siblings) if possible.
2006-12-28 03:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by Queryous 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've made the attempt to contact him, now it's up to him. Take care of the child as best you can (hopefully you've already seen a doctor), and hopefully the father will get with you soon and give you the needed information.
If you have info on how to contact any of his family, you may try that. They may have the medical info/history you need.
2006-12-28 03:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have a child with a man and you don't already know his family history you have a lot of problems.
Count him out....and put down father and his family history "unknown" and let it go from there.
You can't make a person care or be a good father if that's not what they want.
You should however make him pay child support...your son deserves it.
2006-12-28 03:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probably instructed his acquaintances he would bang you (or basically the different, you under no circumstances understand), so as that they are teasing him. do not positioned all of your eggs in his basket, yet basically ignore about what they are doing to you. highschool is a recommend, poor, poor position. you're more beneficial off not paying any interest in any respect to that sort of disrespectful habit.
2016-12-01 06:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be he left his phone at home and he is somewhere elce. Or maybe he is too wrapped up in the holidays to check his phone. If you need family history, maybe try calling his mother, father, or even sibbling.
Good Luck and I hope your baby gets better soon!
2006-12-28 03:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Froggie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like he cares. Just tell the doctor that his side of the family history is unknown. I do that all the time since my baby boy is adopted.
2006-12-28 03:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax, maybe there's something going on that you aren't aware of. It's the two days just after Christmas, he may be tied up with work. Just relax and be patient. Perhaps you could try calling the baby's grandmother?
2006-12-28 03:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are several possibilities:
1. He doesn't care.
2. He's out of town
3. He thinks you're annoying and doesn't wish to speak to you.
4. He's dead on the floor of his house.
5. He doesn't check his messages all that often.
2006-12-28 03:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋