Last Tuesday my baby's father called and was upset because i wanted to keep my son with me on Christmas and he did not get to see him. He never calls any other time to even check on him and therefore i did not feel obligated to take him to see his father. He has made threats to come and kill me and has promised me that he will "make it happen" and considering his background and the type of people he deals with, I believe him. He's already on probation and knows that he should not be getting into any trouble. i recordered the phone call where he threatened me. Is there anything i can do about it? He has broken into my apartment before and assaulted me and took my son away from me.
2006-12-28 02:37:22 · 6 answers · asked by 1 bad chick 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I called the police that night it all happened and all they did was take his name and birth date from me and when he broke into my apartment that's all they did and called him and made him bring my son back to me. I don't have much faith that something will be done by just reporting him or calling the cops.
2006-12-28 03:17:35 · update #1
You need to contact the police. He is in violation of his probation by doing everything you have indicated that he's done. He will have to go back to prison. Document EVERYTHING with time and dates with as much information as possible. Do NOT delay any longer. You and your child are at risk! Contact the police!
2006-12-28 02:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little difficult to believe anyone would write a question like this instead of doing something about it. Call the police and report the threats. If he's on probation, that's enough to put him back in jail. Get a restraining order to keep him away from you permanently. Move somewhere else and don't tell anyone where you've gone.
2006-12-28 03:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that you go down to the Police Dept. and file a complaint. I would then contact the prosecuting attorneys office to continue with the prosecution of him. You can contact his P.O and let them know of his threats, and considering that you and him had a conversation the tape can be used as evidence against him, you can record your own conversations with another person and they don't have to give their consent. If you contact his probation officer, his threats of violence can be a violation of his probation and could send his butt to jail. Be sure to make the report with the police dept. simply because if (god forbid) something did happen, you would want the police to know who they should look into. Good luck to you and your son, I wish you well and will pray for you both.
2006-12-28 02:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There had to have been some type of reports filed, get copies and go to see his probation officer. Record calls when he calls you. Maybe move into a secure building.
2006-12-29 03:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Answer Police 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police, make other arrangements on your living situation.
If he is only calling on Christmas to see his son and no other time my hunch is that he isn't ready to be a father, whatever his age. If he is honestly dangerous you owe it to your child to secure yous and his safety. If you have recorded calls that's a bonus, be sure to forward this information to the police. Then stay low until he is arrested. Perhaps
P.S
relocating to another city may be beneficial just to be sure you are both safe. Nowadays you can't be too safe.
2006-12-28 02:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call Family Court immediately, get an emergency hearing and have an order of protection put on him.
Don't be sitting here waiting for someone else other than a judge to make a decision that could cost you valuable time.
2006-12-28 02:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Athera78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋