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2006-12-28 02:27:06 · 5 answers · asked by Seeker 4 in Social Science Psychology

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I have to admit that when I try to list the seven deadly sins, I can never remember to include envy.

OK, it can be deadly. Granted.

But it can also (almost) be a virtue.

E. g., I envy you your ability to ask good questions and provoke interesting responses. I envy your candor and good will.

Such envy is really a synonym for admiration. Hence, choosing whom to envy and why is one way to build good character. As in my first example, the focus of envy is a quality or achievement or condition that one admires but is not likely to attain. As in the second example, the focus of envy is a quality, achievement, or condition that one shares but would like to raise to a higher level as perceived in another person.

Maybe not expiating characteristics of envy if one despises the envied person or wishes him/her misfortune. But there is envy and then there is envy. (Rest assured, I envy you but wish you well.)

And, by the way, I suspect the same might be true for lust, wrath, and pride. I make no apologies for those things that make me feel lustful, angry, and proud (well, most of those things . . . well, some of those things). Actually, I'm kinda proud of my envy.

Now if I could just find expiation for gluttony, greed, and sloth . . . . I might just slip right by the pearly gates.

Have a happy, enviable 2007!

B Frank (alias mank)

2007-01-01 10:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by bfrank 5 · 0 0

Perhaps just the overcoming of envy.

2006-12-28 20:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0 0

No. Envy is a very toxic emotion.

2006-12-28 07:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i doubt it. but then circumstance dictates all. tell me the story!

2006-12-30 03:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by sheepherder 4 · 0 0

I guess it would depend on your perspective.

2006-12-28 02:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Trollbuster 6 · 0 0

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