do girls like porn or not...and why do some hate it even thow they use vibes and dildos and guys dont say anything...why cant girls think its just like u use dildos and vibes we use porn....is there any kind of porn that girls like...do girls like it or not and why and what kind...
2006-12-28 01:59:36 · 24 answers · asked by shit stinks 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
No consensus of course.
Better not to mess with porn anyway.
2006-12-31 22:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-24 16:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women hate porn because we are uncomfortable with the idea of our boyfriend being turned on by some other female - who is better looking than us. Plus it's an actress who is on TV, it's not even reality; I think women find it offensive, if the guy wants to add some "spice" to the bedroom it's not that difficult, why do you have to resort to porn?! I think watching porn is the same thing as a guy checking out a girl walking down the street, which I would find offensive, if you are with me why do you need anyone else? And just to clarify, not all females use vibrators and dildos, some of us actually have a man!
There are some instances where both people in the relationship watch porn and are perfectly comfortable with that....I would never be, but there are people like that. I think porn is for desperate people who can't get any action in real life, so they have to use their imagination.
2006-12-28 02:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Yul'ka 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well.... to begin with ...... those women in a porn movie are faking, and I am for real when I'm having fun with my vibe ;-)
An other thing why I dislike porn is that it shows an image of women that is simply too far distanced from real-life-women, and many women realy don't want you guys to see these porn chicks as a role model for us being your perfect girlfriend.
But hey, some couples watch soft porn together and enjoy it.
2006-12-28 11:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Chesare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls often do not like porn because it is male centred. Women in porn are often being dominated/used, look plastic, fake it incredibly, painfully obviously and are just disgusting.
I'd pay good money to see porn with real emotions, real love. There should be more amateur porn from loving relationships. There is no respect for women in the porn industry.
2006-12-29 04:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by serf m 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Every girl is different. I do not like porn, but i also do not like dildos. I think they are gross and unnatural. My boyfriend used to watch porn, and i felt that it was disrespectful to me, seeing as how we are living together and planning on getting married soon. Not all girls feel this way, many of them watch porn themselves, and like to watch it with their partner. Every girl is different, you'll just have to find out how each individual feels about it when you get there.
2006-12-28 14:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many women who claim to 'hate' porn either have never watched any classy porn or are in denial lol. I'm sorry, but it's perfectly natural, I just have to laugh when some girl says how 'disgusting' and 'sickening' it is. It is just SEX for goodness sake! HTH : )
2006-12-28 17:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no problem with porn myself i could care less if my guy watches it in fact we watch it together sometimes. the only part i dont like about porn is that no matter what movie you get there is always girl on girl in it and that turns me off... but if you want to know why guys like it more then women its because guys are more visually stimulated then girls are meaning that you guys get turned on by looking at naked pict or movies ect where us gals get more turned on by touch.. (not all of us thoe i also get turned on visually so just saying that most are that way)
2006-12-28 15:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are mixing up the visual stimulation of pornography with the pleasure of just plain masturbating (like using a vibrator). I think many women (and men) prefer the richness of their own imaginations when it comes to sexual fantasies.
Personally, I find porn rather dull and the people in the images extremely goofy looking usually and not very sexy at all. They often look like they are faking it. Why would I want to look at a bunch of airbrushed posers?
Just my two cents.
2006-12-28 02:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by krinkn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women like porn...a lot don't. Most women enjoy mental stimulus over visual...I know Playgirl does nothing for me. I used to hate porn, it made me feel sick and insecure when my boyfriend would look at it. Over the years I've come to realize that men can appreciate real women even though their porn contains an idealized image, and that it;s something that lots of healthy, nice men enjoy. I'm ok with it, I watch it with my husband. That being said...porn that depicts violence, sadism, children, etc...that is feeding a destructive, dangerous aspect of people and is not ok, in my opinion.
2006-12-28 02:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lappet 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋