I had a good friend ...well i thought she was till her birthday.. when we got her a car stereo and a watch,she took them then turned nasty 2 days later and after my husband fixed her car!! And didn't want to be friends no more!! No reason was given nothing just pure nastyness has been aimed at me which really hurts and we have no reason why,I have new friends now but don't want to make the same mistake again and be walked over...
2006-12-28 01:20:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi
Some people can be very nasty, i dont think you can judge everyone by this experience as i think your not showing people your true self that way. I think you just have to cross your fingers and put it down to experience, any true friend will love you for what you are not what you can give them.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-28 01:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After your friend was horrible to you it now seems hard to trust people again. We have all gone through moments like this. You just have to remember that everyone in the world isn't like your old friend, but everyone isn't nice either. The only thing you can do is chance it. You might come out with a good friend or you mighn't. The only way you can find out is if you chance it. If you don't you have lost a friend that could have been fantastic. I hope you make a sensible and wise decision, Good Luck. C.
2006-12-28 09:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cathal M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she don't deserve a friend like u, it's difficult to find real friends but i believe u no who is ur real friend only when u have problems, trust me, that can no lie, because friends r there for the best and worst. use ur instinct, take time, there are still good people outside here. hope this will help. good luck.
2006-12-28 10:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by JESSICA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wasn't a nice person - so be glad she is out of your life now.
No advice on who to trust - its hard. I just use my gut instinct (but not always right!). I think if you have the same humour as someone, then its a good sign!
2006-12-28 09:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Smiler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your " friend " sounds like she needs help! lunatic eh! lol ( sorry ) not everyone is like that if you meet new friends then that's when you find your true friends!
The best thing to do is get to know them 1st before you start to trust them! good luck xx
2006-12-28 09:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by red devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanna Tell u something : ur new friends must be Old to Trust them Coz u donno what he hide behiend his Personality , so u must give urself long time with them to know their personality well. coz there some people Hide Bad Person Behiend them so, take chance with them,....As u see U must Search about this person and ask about him/her if he agood person or bad ,and dont trust them by their faces...
2006-12-28 09:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by $--SOLOM--$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to trust them....just have nice and descent realtions with them and dont get into deep ...after a while you will trust some of them according to what you will experience together.....just follow your instinct
good luck!
2006-12-28 09:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by rebellious_spirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trusting new friends is getting to know her/him first better.
2006-12-28 09:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Maxinne P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure her car is all your husband fixed?
2006-12-28 09:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by AlexChappel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like an enemy to me.find new freinds but remember freindship works both ways..:)
2006-12-28 09:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋