I mean every man has the same thing.They all look the same feel the same and they all do the same thing.What is the big deal.Or is it just single young men who have this problem.It seems every other question is about there downstairs or something related to it.Plz give honest answers. Thanks
2006-12-28 00:26:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I am married and only have one partner my husband, I'm speaking about other men I hear from friends and tv
2006-12-28 01:52:14 · update #1
When you get older you won't find that not to be true anymore. Older guys know more about how to please a women beside what he has downstairs.
2006-12-28 00:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Texan 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
In every porn movie I have seen the men are very large in the basement. The women seem to love the size, they are all actors and get paid for what they do. Most young,and older males see these films and believe there basement is small and no women would enjoy making love with them. This is on film and is not real life, but it can play on a mans mind that he is not normal
2006-12-28 12:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Male sexuality is our driving force, plus our penis and testicles are right down in front where we can see them, unlike lots of other mammals. And our arms are long enough to reach and fondle. We are mentally stimulated by anything remotely sexual, so yes, we dwell on our sexuality and our ability to perform. Just natural, the drive to have sex. I do think that today's environment, with the internet influence, and more importantly TV and movies and magazines flashing beautiful bodies in front of us all the time, we are more aware of our looks as compared to others, and especially cognizant of our size and performance down there.
2006-12-28 11:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For too many of us, sex is our reason for existence. Some men would rather make lots of money or climb high mountains but for those of us who just go to work everyday and go home to take the trash out and watch a few hours of TV, sex is our only means of excitement. Us older guys worry about it too. When we start to have problems performing, we wonder what is left in life. This is why viagra has been such a hot topic. Women may not enjoy sex as much as a man (most likely because the man is thinking only about his own needs) but the woman should nevertheless try to understand the man's desire to be a man.
2006-12-28 08:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bill G 6 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Some guys have to brag about their "parts", they are the usual ones who have the small ones, like I dont have to brag, I'm proud of what I have for my age.LOL
2006-12-28 10:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by B-Rad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some men feel they are too small .othersworry they might not get it up ,,,for a man to perform he needs to relax and now you dont think badly of him or that you wont hold it against him if all dont go to plan ,some men just havent had enough esperience and are maybe a little bit shy,,they also sometimes think maybe you have had better than them and they might not be as good as the last person you where with,,,this is wrong for a man i know ,as we dont think or feel like this but you try telling them that ,i think if you are showing you man how much he means to you ,and that you have no interest in any other,he will relax more with you ,after all you dont just give yourself to any old man do you ?the man we choose has to have something specail about them ,thats what we fall in love with the person not his bits hehe ,i love my husband to bits if his was to drop off i would still love him and no other and as for sex thats just a small bit of love making its not the impotant bit ,its the man we love as a person ,bless them all they just worry too much ,us girls have been made to accept just about anything and most of us do ,and any girl that knocks a man for the size of his bit isnt worth knowing anyway,,,,she imature and nasty ,,,so all men if you have a girl that makes you feel bad about your performance then get rid of her ,,,others will love you for who you are not what you have got ,,,,all the best ,,kat
2006-12-28 08:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋
I think alot of guys are worried because they are under the assumption that the bloke next to them has a longer ladder to climb, so to speak. It is an insecurity issue that is common to guys probably not all that dissimilar to women and their infatuation with their weight. Of course being fit is attractive but the fact is that you women put burdens on yourselves and one another that most guys wouldn't dream of doing.
2006-12-28 08:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by furiousstyles22003 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Do not lose hope, dear. The "men" you speak of are probably "boys". Thank God, men do not all do the same thing or feel the same so just keep on experiencing and someday you wil say aha! so THAT is what the big deal is all about.
2006-12-28 08:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by Gary S 1 · 1⤊ 6⤋
I totally agree with you. And it's amazing that considering how much time some of them seem to spend thinking about it and looking at it and touching it, they appear to know absolutely nothing about it!
I look forward to reading some real answers from the boys.
2006-12-28 08:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by Donna M 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
The basement is a good place for men to hang out . When they get up they can go in the front door , or sneak into the back door !
2006-12-28 08:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by cry baby gator 4 · 1⤊ 5⤋