What do I say myself?

Question

Well,I am in such a bad condition that my mother-in-law tries to prove it to me a 100 times that my hubby is greater than ..Yes,I respect the fact that he is.But,she keeps and keeps praising him for the smallest things....(yes,i wouldve known that i am better than that in some topics but i don't like to boast a long like an immature person.i just keep quiet).the problem is that she says these same sentences so many times.she doesnt do the same to her other 2 children if they do something worth mentioning.that is why now i am thinking that is she proving that i am nothing compared to hubby?or does she think i am nothing.she KEEPS telling that he is god...and that many superb marriage proposals had come to my hubby and that ppl still ask for him..that he is toooo goodlooking etc.I am not jealous of him.I love him the most.her talk is getting so irritaing.When I am sad, thanks to her,I feel sometimes that I don't desrve him .which I know is what her intention is.How to i make mind strong

Answer 1

Everytime she mentions all these other proposals and other woman still wanting him, agree with her. Tell her, "wow, you are so right, I had to fight off a couple of bitches the other!!! I am the luckiest woman in the world to have him" etc, etc. Don't allow her to make you feel any less than what you are. How does your hubby make you feel? That's what's important. Let her talk all she wants. Whenever you know of something that her other children have done that is worth mentioning, YOU mention it. Talk about it like there's no tomorrow. Get your husband involved. When she's around go up to your hubby and give him a great big kiss and tell him how much you love him, and what a hunk he is and how you can't wait to get him by himself. You can just eat him up alive. Girl, play it off. Eventually she'll stop. Whatever she says, just agree and add even more to it. Girl, you have to work on your comebacks. WORSHIP THE GROUND HE WALKS ON!!! LOL Have fun with this.