2006-12-27 23:42:21 · 32 answers · asked by vandana t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yea it will affect everything. learn to trust and let go.
2006-12-27 23:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by jmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to be possesive of him. He is not an object. If you get out of hand with this, he will eventually want to shake you off. Relax! Trust your husband. If he gives you a reason not to trust him, then deal with it. But he is a human being. You cannot posses a human being.
2006-12-27 23:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love ur husband / wife truly definitely u will have possessiveness. Possessiveness will be there with all the wifes and husbands, nothing is wrong in that but with limit n the way u express it n the way u show ur possessiveness thats important. Make sure ur possessiveness will not hurt ur husband.... All the Best.....
2006-12-28 21:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Janu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! No one likes to feel as if they are on a leash, especially men...they love their freedom. When I first got married, I was the same way and my husband hated it. In time, I realized he loves me and always comes home to me. I realized just because he married me doesn't mean he has to give up his life with friends and family. I too made more time for my friends and family. Trust your husband and don't be possessive- it will make him pull away from you and may even ruin your marriage.
2006-12-27 23:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good. Loving some one and being possessive are different. Many women (lee men) take them as one and the same thing. Do trust your spouse rather than trying to judge all women of the world. Otherwise either he will start hiding things from you or will behave abnormally with other women at least in front of you.
2006-12-27 23:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Friendly medic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 13:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware of possessiveness and jealousy. They make the other person feel as if s/he is in prison, and this only leads to resentment and the desire to break free. Don't confuse possessiveness or jealousy with love. For one thing, it's possible to love deeply without either. For another, they can outlast love.
2006-12-27 23:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Antonio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being possessive shows how much u love him
but when the limit crosses like not allowing to speak with anyother girl etc., will surely affect him....!
2006-12-28 00:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by jo p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him abt everything that makes you so unsecure abt your marriage and him. I believe that being possessive is a sure sign of insecurity. Did anyone betray you in the past? Did you lose someone you loved? You need to talk to him openly and ask him to understand you... If there's anything painful in the past, let him know. It will help him understand you better.
2006-12-28 00:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by bogey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will affect your relationship if you overdo it but since u have an insight that it can spoil your relationship ........ analyse the situation before showing your possesiveness..... slowly negative aspect of this nature in you will get controlled .
have faith in his honnesty and dont think that your controll is the one that keeps him from being disloyal .
2006-12-27 23:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya vandan yaar u r right if ur possesive for u hubby 200 % your words affecting his daily life personal or officel life too.. its very harm full for both.. plz. make turst and give him some freedom..
2006-12-28 22:27:11 · answer #11 · answered by rathee75@gmail.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋