Why are u all doing this? Why do you care so much for other ppl's husband? Care for your own! U're all wrecking other family, u know. I'm a victim & it really hurt so much. Even after I confronted her, she simply juz carry on. Don't u all have shame????
2006-12-27 23:37:55 · 22 answers · asked by priteeswit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First thing i need to know is what are we doing?????
Second i don't know your husband.
Third Why are you a victim.
If your husband is seeing another woman, then you have to sit back and ask why.
This is a site that is for people to use if this is the problem then, the problem is with your husband using it, we can't stop him. You can't stop him ether. Now finally to answer your last question if i do something wrong then yes a do have shame and feel guilty.
2006-12-27 23:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no shame, because I would not be able to date married men if they did not want to date me. I prefer married men as there are not as many strings attached. I do not want a long term relationship. Just someone to have fun with when I am in the mood. Now here is where it gets interesting if your husband left you, then to me he would be single, not married and I would no longer date him.
So I am not the one with the shame, perhaps your husband should be full of guilt and shame. Hope that answers all your questions about the other woman, most of us have no guilt or shame or regrets unless of course the husband is a fool and gets caught. And our fun is over.
2006-12-28 08:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by k8eblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry this has happened to you. Unfortuantly my best friend is the "Other woman". She started seeing this married man almost a year ago and trust me I have tried to make her see that what she is doing is wrong and needs to stop. In my first marriage it happened to me.
I dont know why they do this, her reason is she was just lonely when it started and now she claims to be in love with him and cant stop the relationship.
I have told her that she is wrecking a family and Im gonna show her your post. Her own daughter has questioned her over the relationship with this man but she continues.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers and remember that you deserve better.
2006-12-28 09:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by just_trump_my_ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you husband say about her? I know you are being hurt because you are deeply in love with your husband now...but try to think in another way.. maybe you two are not meant to be with each other to grow old... or you two have some issues, but you did not work them out, or even talk about it...
You both drilled a whole at each other's heart, and that is why the 3rd party can came to be his...
2006-12-28 07:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Love cake:-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating cannot be explained simply. You, a victim? No such thing. It takes two to make a marriage work and it takes two or three to mess it up. Try to see what part you played in the drama. Maybe next time you won't let yourself be victimized.
It may also help to improve your English. Most people don't write in internet speak.
2006-12-28 08:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang on there, lady! Perhaps you may want to look at yourself first before putting the blame on that girl. Have you ever talked to your husband and asked him the reason for cheating on you? I am sleeping with a married woman and i don't have that feeling of guilt for doing it! Do you know why? Her husband just can't satisfy her needs! So, what about you?
2006-12-28 18:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mistake there was to confront her. He is the one that can stay away from her. You should confront him because its not her fault at all. I doubt very much from the offset he told her he was married. He probably wriggled his worm into her pants 1st and then said so. Maybe its your fault too for letting him slip away. He obviously wants something from her. If you can give that to him he doesnt need to go elsewhere. Talk to him, ask him what he wants, if you meet his desires then he wont be seeing her again.
2006-12-28 08:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ermmm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK...I have no idea what you are speaking about. But, I must point this out...it is no one's fault about your marriage being "on d rocks" except for the two who are involved in the marriage. You have to have communication skills to over come "3rd party" interruptions.
2006-12-28 07:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by ldyria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my Wife spelled like a 13 year old text messaging their friends like you do, I'd cheat on her too.
Try turning off Maurey, clean the apartment, and cook a nice dinner for a change.
2006-12-28 07:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u socling someone u know cos what exactly is yr question??? Make no bloody sense.....
If yr husband is having an affair, u must ask yrself who's problem.. u or yr husband..anyway,yr question make no sense, sounds stupid and a waste of time
2006-12-30 22:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋