I know i come on here and ask silly questions when im bored but i need some good advice on this one.I have a friend i have known for about 6 years we use to always hook up on drunk nights back when i use to go out.I have not seen him in about 6 years and then i saw him on myspace and added him as a friend, he sent me a email and asked if we could hang out before he moved away to florida with his bro? I said sure he came over a couple days then next thing i knew he was asking if he could stay for a couple days till his brother sent him his plane ticket,well its been 2 weeks now he dont work hangs out while im working stays up all night and sleeps all day, what do i do ? what do i say? im the type of person that dont like to hurt any ones feelings of cause disrupt but what do i do? i feel like a man supporting his hoe, i have been single for 2 years and raising my own kids for 5 years by myself.How do i get him to leave with out hurting his feelings?
2006-12-27 23:31:01 · 4 answers · asked by wblueyesinvt35 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you have to talk with him. Then go on to ask him what his plans are. Tell him that although you value his friendship, you cannot afford to keep him in your house any longer. He was supposed to stay a couple of days and it has now turned into a couple of weeks. Where was he staying before you let him into your home? You can do this wihout hurting him. Besides, I think he's taking advantage of you. The longer you stay shut, the longer he's going to take advantage of you. Therefore, take the risk of hurting him. (Believe me, he'll just move on) Better him than you.
2006-12-27 23:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's turned into ..." The thing that wouldn't leave". He is not a friend, he is using you. He obviously doesn't have a problem lying to you. I get the feeling that he'll take as much as your willing to give him. Time to drop the "nice guy" persona and stop letting this guy use you.
2006-12-27 23:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
During any night, ask him if you can have a chat. Go somewhere where you two can chat in private and tell him nicely that he is imposing on you and if he could find other lodging for awhile.
2006-12-27 23:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Buckytooth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really ned to sit him down and have an honest discussion with him about your expectations. i think he is using you and just looking for a place to crash. my vote would be to kick him out.
2006-12-28 01:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋