He has a new female friend that he spends lots of time with.
2006-12-27 23:30:33 · 14 answers · asked by diamond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does that mean he's cheating on you? Do you know this lady? Have you asked him about her? Have you asked him why he is spending so much time with her? Have you told him that this makes you uncomfortable? You need to have a heart to heart talk with him. Have you spoken with her? Let her know how you feel also. If you find out that he is cheating on you, then you need to walk out on him and seek professional help.
2006-12-27 23:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on their relationship - unless you know for a fact that he's cheating. If that's the case - confront him. Men can have female friends, but if she's new, chances are there's more to it. Be very wary
2006-12-28 07:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
If you think that you truly could handle the answer, if it were yes (and I think that you should think hard on this one) you should ask him.
Me, myself....I wouldn't want to know, unless of course, the word "love" was involved. I've been through that one, and it nearly destroyed me. If he doesn't "love" her, it's just sex, as far as I'm concerned, and you need to decide just how much that bothers you.
Namaste, and Happy New Year,
--Tom
2006-12-28 07:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it, and if he refuses to stop seeing her, than it may be time to move on somewhere else, as it is so disrespectful of him, usually when they begin to cheat they have no intention of giving up the other woman, and giving her up would be what is needed to save the marriage. no one Wants to share their mate with anyone else, nor should u.
2006-12-28 08:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i think you should do is is talk to him.....tell him to stop that your his girl and your the one he has to spend time with....tell him what you feeling when you see him with her....if he really loves you then he will understand and stop and spend more time with you.......if he don't understand and he keeps flirting and hanging out with that new female friend then dump him......but first just be yourself and talk to him about it....ok....good luck...
2006-12-28 07:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by shy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are they friends or is he cheating....men can and do have female friends without cheating.....have a talk with him...good luck
2006-12-28 07:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be cheating. However, if you feel that he is invite yourself along. If he says no then he probably is. Dump him.
2006-12-28 07:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform him the new female is not "stealing" him from you, you are giving him to her complete with his dirty clothes and bills.
2006-12-28 07:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in your court, as it were. If you tolerate this, he will assume it is okay with you. Confront him and tell him that this is not acceptable. If he demurs, move out and move on.
Cheers.
2006-12-28 07:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i didn't have any kids with this punk, i'd give him one warning, then kick him to the curb.
if i had kids with him, i'd go to counseling to see if we couldn't work things out.
2006-12-28 07:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋