I married to the girl I have loved for 2yrs, few months back and the experience have been pathetic.
She is full of anger all the time, even for minor things, does not care about me at all, I cannot expect anything if i do she abuses me and my mother,
I have tried to talk to her a number of times, while in good mood, she admits that she can not control her anger, and she is doing these things out of anger - some times provoked by her office matter, sometime her parents (if they have got some problems) and sometimes if my mother asks her to prepare tea or make bed (which she hates to do).
I love my mother a lot and can't handle this abuse, from my wife.
I feel trapped, and feel sorry for myself.
I don't love her anymore, and have stopped caring about her.
Moreover can't do much as divorce does not come easily in Hindus and if it happends it is not easily acceptable among society??
2006-12-27 23:14:38 · 7 answers · asked by romesh_model 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to put your foot down. Tell her that if she continues this behavior, that you will leave. Regardless of what anyone in your family or religion says, you are the one living this nightmare. You shouldn't have to live like this. If you were a woman, everyone would be telling you to leave now. Your wife needs to get some serious help. In the meantime, if you do not want to walk out on her, then get the help for yourself. This is abusive.
2006-12-27 23:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she also behaves the same way with her parents, if no , then find out the reason, why it is so with you and ur mother ? Is some thing is keep on creating trouble to her? Ask her to join some yoga,meditation.Avoid fighting with her, when she is in bad mood, as it can harm to you, her or ur mother.If she is doing job, then make sure she is not only the person to work in the home, you and your mother should also contribute.
Be gentle and show your affection, it will take some time, but that is only the way...Best of Luck
2006-12-28 01:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by yjph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your going to stay married to this woman because divorces are not easy and not acceptable among society? Well then continue to suffer in this love less marriage for the rest of your life with a woman who is full of rage. I feel sorry for any children you two may have.
2006-12-27 23:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never mind what is acceptable among "society" - they aren't living your life. You need to do what is best for you and your family. This girl sounds like she has some issues that she needs to address - you can't do that for her. I suggest you separate to show her how serious you are at resolving this - force her to face the reality of how terrible you think your relationship is. You've already stated that you don't love her anymore - to carry on would be pointless, and a waste of life for all of you.
2006-12-27 23:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then let those who think divorcing this abusive person would be the wrong thing to do take her in. See how fast they accept her abuse.
2006-12-27 23:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the man. Take charge. Return her anger in kind. If it does not stop you need to escape.
2006-12-27 23:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words ANGER MANAGE
2006-12-27 23:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋