i used to be in a group of three friends, i'll call the other two A and B. Now B was saying to people i was anoying him and he didn't want to be friends with me anymore and A heard him. He told me and B and me had a big argument and we didn't talk for months. But i was still friends with A because he didn't like B either anymore. But A went on holiday in school term and me and B had a long talk and i forgave him because he was sayin things like i know it was so stupid and i was such a cruel friend but u were my best friend so now i dont know how i can tell A without making him mad at me! i dont think i can ever be best friends with B again but i would like it if we were friends. How can i tell A?!
2006-12-27 22:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by question guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell the truth, point blank. Be up-front.
2006-12-27 23:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by ldyria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know how you feel. You afraid and confused. I agree with most of the other answers you've recieved. But you need to tell A the truth because if you don't then you'll lose him as a friend. Just tell him everything you say in those last few sentences. Tell him that you and B talked while he was away and worked everything out. If A isn't giong to be your friend just because you and B made up... well then A isn't a very good friend.
Good Luck! :]
2006-12-28 08:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by trackbrunswick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is very mature of you. I would just tell A exactly what happened. At least now you don't have to hold a grudge toward B anymore. You can see eachother in school without having to avoid eachother. Like you said you will not be B's best friend anymore but at least you can be friendly with him. Be honest with A. I believe he'll understand, especially if he's a true friend.
2006-12-28 07:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to tell A and you need to do it asap because A will be so hurt if they find out on their own.
So I would sit A down and talk to them, try to explain that you want to give B a chance and that you would like if they gave B a chance aswell but the main point of the conversation is so that you can listen to A about their feelings.
2006-12-28 07:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by arlcarb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just tell A that you and B have made amends, that B clearly apologized and you forgave him. You could also try to make A and B friends again so all three of you can enjoy hanging out again.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 07:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell A the truth, remember he supported you through you differences with B at the time. Say it the way you told us, that you are still friend s with B but not bes buds.
2006-12-28 07:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him! Get it over with, as long as he knows you forgave B then I'm sure he will just go along with you, it's all in the past now.
2006-12-28 07:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by cabonarakittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain him calmly that u and B have let bygones be bygones but that u're not sure that u can be best friends with B again.A will surely not appreciate that coz u said that he doesn't like B,but he'll have to understand coz firstly,it wasn't on him that B said bad things but on u and secondly,it's u and only u who choose with whom u wanna be friends;u don't need A to agree with ya choices.with time,he'll surely understand ya decision and forgive B too
2006-12-28 08:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by axL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in friendship true friend can forgive what ever thier problems true friend understand...tell a and b to reconciled and restore thier relation so that the more strong friendship will come out.
2006-12-28 07:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by ken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since their fight involved you, instead of telling A I would urge B to make amends with A.
2006-12-28 07:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋